What would you say....?

Question

Two dear friends are adopting four children--a sibling set-- next week. They already have one child.

They are generous people who have made the decision to devote their lives to needy children (the father is a pediatrician) and they are good and kind people whose small daughter is a testament to their goodness and kindness.

Tomorrow a few friends are throwing them an "adoption shower"-- and I want to write them a note expressing how proud I am of them for their investment in the lives of these children and how much I admire them for making this kind of commitment.

I write for a living, so you'd think it would be easy, but I'm having trouble thinking of precisely what to say.

What would you write, if you were me?

Answer 1

What an amazing thing you are doing for these children. The thought of what it will mean for their lives and yours leaves me speechless. I am pround to know and be friends with two such wonderful people and I look forward to getting to know your new children!

Answer 2

Well, I tend to be really casual when I write notes to my friends, so I would write something just like what you said,

"Dear Jim and Jane, (or Dear Doe family, ;))

Congratulations on the adoption of Johnny, Susie, Sally and Bob! You are amazing people and ALL of your children are a testament to your generosity

I greatly admire you for choosing to give so much of yourself to your family and I know that your new additions will benefit from being a part of your lives. "

I don't know, something like that.. but in your own words...

keep it simple, but from the heart.. :)

Answer 3

It's easier for me to think of things 'not' to say!  gosh, I'll have to think about this and come back to edit

Answer 4

First, I would try to avoid "congratulations on the adoptions" language.  Focus on the enlarged family, new people in their lives, how wonderful it will be to get to know each other, how much they are all going to teach each other.

Answer 5

dear john and jane

i wanted to write you a note to express my excitement for the addition to your family. the road you have chosen is going to be filled with trials, but the joys will be so numerous that they will seem trivial.

over the years i have seen what type of people you are and the love and commitment you have to share. with influences like you in their lives these children are sure to thrive. i have grown as a person just by being your friend.

there are no words to express to you the happiness i feel for you and your family. i am proud to be a part of your life, as will your children. i wish you all the contentment and peace the world has to offer. no one is more deserving than you.

with love and admiration.......

or something like that. most people say i talk and write in an odd way, so you would have to tweak it to suit your liking.

best of luck to your friends.