What would you say to this.....?

Question

Your boyfriend/husband just told you "I want to get you pregnant to teach you a lesson"

Men please add your comments as well.

Answer 1

I'd laugh, that's absolutely ridiculous he obviously has a severe mental problem.

Answer 2

No words.  Just walk away.

Answer 3

Lol! I would wonder if he'd had some kind of brain injury and insist he see a GP. If nothing else, for counselling.

If he was serious though (and in the absence of any brain injury that could explain such absurd thinking), obviously I'd leave him and not bother speaking to him again.

Answer 4

"So, I'm stupid and you want me to raise your kid?  Hmmph, now THAT'S stupid."  If he says he never called you stupid, say, "Then why do I need to be taught anything?"

Answer 5

Why do women even date these guys in the first place?  Is it really that hard to see the signs of someone being mentally unstable?

Answer 6

Some guys say the darnedest things!  That sounds like the kind of wit that's been fine-tuned in prison.  I wonder how you came across such a choice specimen, and if he's once more residing in the stone cottage, his proper element.

Answer 7

They'd be down the road.  What a weird thing to say ?  

You donot use pregnancies (AKA a LIFE) to teach lessons.  That attitude would scare the sh*t out of me :0

Answer 8

From a reasonable right thinking male point of view, this sounds like a threat. I personally don't think getting the female partner pregnant as a lesson showed any rational and responsibility on the male partner's part. Such threat could amount to assault or possibly attempted rape? That guy must still be living in barbarian times or is so backwards that he forgot to treat woman with respect. Personally I would call the police and have that guy arrested and get some mental tests done, because I don't think he is all there! Woman have the right to choose to be pregnant and not being forced, therefore lack of consent on the female partner, sue that guy for emotional and mental distress or get a court order to prevent that guy from getting anywhere close to you (10 miles)? Your ex boyfriend should treat women with more respect and not think that woman are just there for breeding. Getting pregnant should be for the love of creating a child and be responsible for bringing that child up, not as a matter out of spite, hate or ill-will towards the female partner.  

Answer 9

Are you an irresponsible person?

Answer 10

Wow - I think it's a really good thing you got the h**l away from that guy. He sounds like a sociopath that wanted in some way to keep you bound to him in some way for the rest of your life.

I would say, "I've been taught safe s*x and take the pill for prevention, but thanks!"

Answer 11

You see the thing is he wouldn't.

Answer 12

plz only a d!<k hed wood say dat

Answer 13

There is nothing worse than a biology teacher gone bad.  

Answer 14

I would have him admitted to a mental hospital because he would obviously be mentally disturbed.

I am surprised you stayed with him after saying something like that.

Edit: glad to hear it Rainbow, you had a lucky escape there ... he sounds really sick.

Answer 15

nut job , good thing you left him becuase if he got you pregnant he would not stick around for you .  

Answer 16

Well, I;m not a male, but that comment is a very strong indication of this insecure males insignificant ego.

Answer 17

He was definately mentally ill.

Noone in their right mind get's anyone pregnant to teach a lesson.

That's on par with getting pregnant to get or keep a man. It's crazy.

Answer 18

I'd say that guy's a fool. Getting a woman pregnant is only gonna teach the man a lesson- a lesson in finance he's not gonna forget (at least for the next 18 or so years).

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It's crazy how women flock to these type questions; but anything concerning logic or anything that shows women to contradict themselves and they as a group seem to spontaneously take a break. hmm?

Answer 19

EDIT 2: 'Ex' sounds like a good description for someone like that.

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EDIT: OIC, Smirk's point ~ maybe he thinks you're irresponsible? Not very supportive of him, and pregnancy is no guarantee of learning anything!

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It would be interesting to hear what the 'lesson' might be, I can't really understand what he thinks this would teach you?

It does sound like a bit of a nasty thing to say, unless he's just joking about?

Best wishes :-)