What would you think and how would you feel?

Question

if someone said they love you a little bit, when your in a long term relationship

Answer 1

That the person likes me not loves me.

Answer 2

saying ur a little bit in love is like saying ur alittle but pregnant dont u think? its something u either are or u arent.....sounds to me like u better make a dash for the door before he or she brins somethin nasty home.....the person is just not ready to make an exit yret but soon will

Answer 3

I'd feel confused and hurt

Answer 4

I would be confused.  That is kind of manipulative.  You should ask this person to be more clear....

Answer 5

How long have you been in a relationship with this person?  6 months is a good starting point.  If it has been over 2 years or more....I would feel that my partner doesn't really love me the way I love him.  Yes, this is a sad position that you would be put in.  If he or she is being honest with you; then they are saying that they don't love you the way they should love someone like a soulmate.  I think I would ask my partner if they want to break it off for some reason.  Then I would have to move out of the relationship and get interested in something else in life besides a partner.  Another person may come along that really loves me the way I want a partner to love me.  That's love.  Someone who tells you they love you.  A long term relationship w/o love is a friendship.

Answer 6

I don't think it's possible to love someone a little bit, but that's just me. If you're in a long term relationship, you both should love each other whole heartedly -)

Answer 7

I'd be packing. "a little" isn't enough for me.

Answer 8

Love takes time to fully develop, and you simply have to allow things to either progress at their own pace.

It's a cliche, but you really cannot hurry love.

Answer 9

The bottom line is what would YOU do if this happened.  It will say volumes about YOUR character.  If that matters........

Answer 10

That I should have waited for them to tell me whether or not they love me in their own time instead of being impatient and asking them?

But having been in that situation myself it was very hurtful.

Some people like to say it a lot, some people don't, actions speak louder than words. A friend of mine had a very demonstrative husband who would tell her every morning and every night that he loved her. But she found out he was cheating on her!

Answer 11

Love is Love.

Kinda odd to say 'a little bit' - I would seek clarification on that point.