What would you women do if your fiance...

Question

took pictures of his ex wife nothing nasty, but while you were together, and you found them, would you be pissed

Answer 1

Maybe he likes the cars and the ex is just incidental.......some people can't take pix of things without some one being in them...doesn't matter who they are......

.....could there be child support issues and he thinks proving they aren't so destitute by pix of their cars might help in family court? Is she threatening to ask for more, or does he feel he deserves a reduction in his payments....and he tricked them into the photos....

Answer 2

This is strange.....I would demand an explanation!!

Answer 3

how i'd feel about it would depend which reason he gave for doing so

Answer 4

I'd be okay with it if he took them for her and she kept them. Not if he had them still though. I'm a jealous person though.

Answer 5

It's a little bizarre that he did that, but don't get yourself worked up over the trivial things. In marriage you have to pick and choose your battles. If they weren't inappropriate pictures, tell him how you feel about what he did and leave it at that.  

Answer 6

i would be

but i am a jealous person

but why would he take pictures?

that  means he has been around her

sometime

what was the reason he gave?

Answer 7

it just depends on why he took the picture. i need more info before i can say exactly what i'd do.

Answer 8

yes, when its over its over. why still contact with her. even if have kids. should be no pics, or anything. wow, i would be wanting answeres from him or her. my x did that to me. had me in the house when x wife came over didnt  want her to met me. and his mom said he kept grabbing her hand. one reason why were x. they had kids nad he go see her took our ring off. nope. nip it in the but.  

Answer 9

Kind of sounds like he's not completely over her. Why would he WANT photos of her to begin with if they aren't together anymore?

Answer 10

well i would wonder why he was taking pics of his ex, depends on what she was doing in the pic and what his reason was for taking it.

  

Answer 11

No maybe they still want pics of this car is anyone thinking it's the car that's hot not the ex??

Answer 12

well.. i would ask him the reason for taking the pictures,

and ask why he still has them haha

Answer 13

my question is why is he still hanging out with an ex?? where was her husband? im sure her husband wouldnt be too cool with her getting her pic taken by and ex boyfriend! i think thats odd. i seriously never understand relationships with ex's...once its over its over...no need to be buddy-buddy with eachother. that may sound a little rude or demanding, but no way would i let my fiance hang out with an ex...once you have had intimate relationship with something, you can never go back to 'just friends' i think its silly and stupid, they broke up for a reason, why try and continue the relationship as friends??  

Answer 14

Why cars? Are they trying to sell them or something?

But I personally wouldn't mind if my fiance's taking pictures with his ex. They're still really good friends, and my fiance introduced me to her at her graduation party. She turned out to be really beautiful, smart, and friendly. They broke up in good terms. I'm also still close with my ex because he's also a good friend, who likes to remind me not to yell at my fiance too much, lol.

So if your relationship is great and that pictures are the only issue, you should let it go. Maybe they're good friends still, just like in my case.

Answer 15

When did he take them?

If it was a long time ago, I'd ask him why he kept them.   It may be completely innocent...

I'm happily married but have a thing about never throwing away pictures.  They're in boxes with all my other pictures from college, but I have pictures of old boyfriends in there.  It's no big deal - I didn't keep them because I am still in love with them.

So I'd just ask him calmly before freaking out.  Good luck! :)