What wud u do if u was me?

Question

hi all im 22 and my partner is indian.we have been together nearly a year and everythin was good to begin with.

he started bein mouthy,possessive and controlling sayin what i can and cant do with who and all rest of it.

He puts me down saying im a white mthr fukr,w***e and sayin e knows for a fact id cheat and that i alradey have doone which is so untrue as i never wud.

his parents dont know about me and he says he going to take me over at xmas to meet them but i dont know wether this is true.i have no friends since getting with him but want a normal nice boyf,can anyone help please

Answer 1

i hope you dnt meet his parents at christmas because by then you would have left him and his insecurities behind. you deserve so much better!  

Answer 2

ditch that b*****d.

Answer 3

indian men are usually like this cuz in there culture it is better to be reincarnated as a cow than a woman it says so in their bible

Answer 4

h**l girl why you still with this control freak, You deserve better than this and if you have started losing some of your friends then my dear i would be telling him to take a hike.. There is no way in the world I would even want to go and met his family...what you going to do if you get over there and A his family don't like you and ignore you and B if he steals your passport what happens then how you going to get home. It has happened to a friend of mine and it took 2 years to get her back to where she lives. Also if you have been together this long and his parents don't know about you than he is obviously ashamed of you and don't think that highly of you.If he hasn't started to hit you then that will be the next thing he will start doing. Just remember you are worthwhile and while you have no kids tying you together I would get outta this relationship NOW!!! do it for yourself Honey.You are strong enough so just DO IT!

good luck

Answer 5

He's a t**t if he treats you like that and you're a bigger t**t if you stay with him!

Answer 6

omg sweetie why are you with this guy!!! you deserve so much better! you need to ditch him this is not normal. A man should never insult his girl like this! Leave him ASAP

Answer 7

okay no offence

but this sounds completely made up

If this is real, I would leave him

Answer 8

What religion is he?

Id leave him, you obv have nothing to keep you there other than the fact that you love him, but considering everything you've told us about your life this love will soon turn to resentment.

You have th chance for you both to have a fresh start because his family doesn't know about you and you can find a nice caring boyfriend that doesn't give you abuse, or accuse you endlessly of cheating.

Before you make any decisions however talk to him and see if what his view on your 'marriage' are.

Hope everything works our for you!

Good luck

Answer 9

I think he knows about history of your past that is why he is saying such things. And I am sure you also know why he is saying you such, but u did not mention it.

Answer 10

you need to stand up for yourself m8! you need to explain to him that it cant be one rule for one person and one for another. and a relationship is built on trust if he cant believe you then it wont work. it sounds like you guys need some space apart. i suggest having a break for a bit, it may be hard but you need to clear your head and he needs to realise he might lose something. if he doesnt then i'd say he aint the guy for you

Answer 11

if i was you i would finish with him because he is a control freek and he does not know how to treat you right.

i had a ex in 2003 who was just like him so if i was you i would say .

LISTEN IVE HAD ENOUGH OF YOU YOU BOSSY IDIOT TAKE YOUR BAGS AND LEAVE BECAUSE I DONT DATE CONTROL FREEKS

dump him dump him dhump him  

Answer 12

wow, get out of that relationship!

this is just going to get worse.

Answer 13

If I were you I'd start graffitying my name, the things I'd like to do and/or have done to me, along with a time and date to meet in as many truck-stop restrooms as I could find. This is a good way to meet a lot of very friendly, well-paid prospective partners. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised by the sheer weight of the proposals you'll be presented. You should have no trouble finding new friends while broadening your horizons (among other things).