What you do when your fiancee break your heart.?

Question

Though i'm a strong person physically and mentally but love has broken me. I don't know but my tears comes out on their own. I don't like love songs which i used to love listining. I felt very heavy in my heart. I try to keep me busy all the time in my office. But still thoughts comes out in my mind with tears. In the night whenever i woke up i could not get the sleep but i weep. I don't know but i get hurt very badly. Advise what should i do. She still going to marry with me but i'm broken. She had never valued my love. Never say a single word of praise for our relationship or for me. Never even talked with me like a soon to be wife. She had a pervious affair. But said that she is with me but i felt that she is not with me from her heart.

Answer 1

Make sure you have some Bond-o because you will need it to glue your heart back together.  Then, tell your girlfriend what you told us in that paragraph about not loving from the heart.  Then tell her you think that the two of you should postpone or call off the wedding at least till you feel better about things.  Never marry if you are uncertain, it is a recipe for disaster.  

Answer 2

Sounds like your going through depression dude. speak to a doctor.  

Answer 3

Move on.  

Bro, you are her security blanket, nothing more.  YOU deserve someone that loves you like you love her.  You don't have that.  Move on.  You will have a miserable life if you marry her.

I watched my brother make the same mistake.  Last five years.

Move on.

Answer 4

meet her personally and tell ur probs.find out whether she is really interested on u.tell her that u r not bothered about her past life.that may be the reason why he is aloof.

Answer 5

if you've got a dog or 1 of your family has pick up all the p**p and blend it with water then put it into a water gun and **** his house up aswell as his smell hahahahahahahahah

Answer 6

Don't marry this girl. Move on, and eventually you will find some one else.

Answer 7

get a new fiance

Answer 8

If she hurt you this badly, without even indicating that she was unhappy in the relationship, I would suggest that you reconsider getting married.  Wait until you two can work out this problem before committing to a life together with children.  You do not want to make yourselves or your future children miserable for the rest of their lives. Try couples counseling prior to getting married.

Answer 9

You need to get therapy: it seems as if you don't value yourself and you think getting crumbs of love is all you deserve. Think about your childhood and see why is it that you don't think highly of yourself.  A balance person marries somebody that appreciates him so much her heart aches with love. Unless you are so dumb, and ugly that you think you can't get love so you will marry the woman that had an affair and the one that doesn't love deeply.

Answer 10

OMG - get laid and buy a dictionary

CONFUSED

Answer 11

i know how you feel dude its happened to me but some things arent meant to be .atleast you havent married  

Answer 12

Whatever you do, please don't marry this person. They are not going to be a good wife. Move on and get help. You sound very depressed. Get help, and leave this woman alone.

Time heals all wounds. Corny but true.

Answer 13

And you want to prolong feeling like this for years by marrying this woman? The short and sweet answer to this is leave her and never look back. You have reached out for love and it is not being reciprocated and probably never will be. Make the break and find someone who truly loves you and you them before even contemplating marriage. I wish you well.

Answer 14

Break his heart, ego and pride too.

Answer 15

you must be very hurt. theres still a chance if u're willing to forgive her but i know  u feel bad cos the hurt is there.i know u want to forget everything but dat ******* memories keep coming back. the broken pieces has been glued but the crack is still there. hopefully u will find ur own happiness wif someone who deserves u

Answer 16

That is very sad to hear. If she had had an affair before, why did you take her back? You obviously know in your heart she may hurt you again like that, if she hasn't already. I would ask her to tell you how she feels, if she is not genuine, I would break up with her and move on.

Answer 17

A truly unfortunate situation you are going through. The feeling of uncertain and confusion.

Best thing is to speak with her and find out. Is it for real or your both playing a emotional game.

If it continues and you still feel the way you do then a good sharp shovel and a bag of lime might be needed.

Answer 18

That is so sad. By reading your question I can see what a sensitive and loving person you are, so it is her loss. Your special partner is still out there. the one that will give you true love that you deserve. Don't let this experience knock your confidence use it as a hard lesson and a narrow escape. Try to make new friends. Do something outrageous and find YOU, and love will find you when you least expect it and this will be a distant memory..Good Luck.

Answer 19

marrage s suppose to be happy not miserable sounds depressing if it helps you at all i am brocken too listening to love songs right now goog luck hope it works out

Answer 20

break her bones!