Whats a good way to bring up the subject to husbands brother on me having s*x with him so i can get pregnant?

Question

Billy what are you talking about i have no children.

Answer 1

i say go for it and enjoy it to the maxx

Answer 2

Sounds like you just want to do your 32 year old "very good looking" brother in law!

If I was him, I would RUN!

You and your husband are fools to get involved in such a wacked out scheme.

Answer 3

s*x is not a game that every one come up in the ground and start making score. So loosing game depends upon ur firm mind and not to use unfair means in fulfilment of ur ideas.

Answer 4

you should get your husband to suggest it, it is his brother, and he would probably have a closer relationship with him than you do

Answer 5

artificial insemination.

Answer 6

2 children later and your still s******g the brother inlaw? keepin it in the family hey!!!.

hows about adoption... or artificial insemination? why would you sleep with your husbands brother.. he will remember this for the rest of your natural born life and there will always be the thought of you willing to sleep with other ppl while married....

i guess some couples are just that way.. willing to goto a keybowl party at the drop of a skirt.

Answer 7

Whoever father's your child, your husband will raise as his own. His brother may say no, just because it kinda can be a strange asking to sleep with your sister in law. Another problem that could come up, is attachment. The bio father may want to have something to do with the child as a 'father' and raise the family together. It can be complicated, but if you're husbands game, best of luck, and a healthy baby to you three!

Answer 8

I totally understand wanting to carry your own child.  I had to go through fertility w/all four of my children.  I was told at 19 I would never have a child of my own and i had my first one at 25.  I'm 36 now and soooo happy I had my own child.  I think you should definitely reassure your husbands brother that legally he will not be held responsible for this child and it's up to him wether or not he could handle giving his brother a child.  That is what he would be doing and maybe you could approach it that way.  His brother would like him to give him the child he can't have.  Good luck to you and you'll never regret your decision to have a child.  they are blessings.

Answer 9

why do you have to have s*x, have him donate do a IUI.  

Answer 10

do it. then you will be eligible to be on opra. and then you can get that money to get a real child using medicle procedure.

other than that...

your husband wont be the father. he will be an uncle.

Answer 11

keeping it in the family huh?

Answer 12

That's sick having s*x with your husbands brother.  Do you really think that you will get away with that?  Do you really think the repercussions from all of that wont have a super high price to pay?  If you want to have a baby it should NOT be the brothers.  We are going into hicks ville here aren't we. I think you need to think long term here not just the feeling of wanting a baby.  I know that feeling, it took me 11 years to have one and believe me if it was not my husbands child and after all our problems (because baby's do come with there own set of problems) he would have left me holding that over my head.  Don't ask the brother, your better off not knowing the father especially the man that will be the real father don't need to know.  Look at other options and into churches & teen pregnancy places.  If your both stuck on the whole brother issue then you should think turkey baster.  s*x with his brother & still remain married, how disgraceful would that be!?  

Answer 13

I wouldnt do that if it was me, I would go thru invitro...Is this a way for you to be able to cheat on your husband.....

Answer 14

Hi there, Im not sure how your situation is like for your husband to suggest that. However, it would be for the best not to seek his brother's help for that purpose. Some of the answers made sense, he may be all willing and enthusiatic about the idea now but it doesnt mean he will follow his idea throughout. After all, people changes over time, even if he does not change, the child you conceive with the help of his brother will raise other issues when the time comes.

However if you can get through all the possible problems, I would suggest for you to get your husband to speak to his brother. Its always better to have men talk among themselves.  

Answer 15

Do you not have issues with committing ADULTERY??? Being a christian man and husband, I can't imagine something like this and expecting to remain "happily" married, but that's me and my opinion.

I don't see anything positive that could come from this.

EDIT:

In response to your additional details, let me be clear, I SAID THAT I AM A CHRISTIAN and can't see anything positive coming from this.

All I asked was if you had issues committing adultery. I never passed judgement and I didn't preach to you.

Adultery is adultery, Christian or not.

Answer 16

Why do you have to have s*x with him to get pregnant?

What I mean is, there is ways for him to Donate, if you will, without being intimate with you. And you'll still have the same kid. You jsut won't get the chance to pork your husbands hot brother. Which is wrong no matter how you try to spin it.

Sounds like someone has been watching "The Big Chill" recently.

Answer 17

If you're going to do it, you should be absolutely clear as to what role he will play with the child. Will he have to watch it grow up without ever telling the kid who his real father is?

Make it clear that the s*x is for pregnancy only, and that this isn't for personal pleasure (otherwise he'll expect it to continue after the pregnancy).

Also, as other people pointed out, your husband will probably resent this later on, regardless of how secure, loving, etc. he is.

I'd start by talking about how you were trying to get pregnant, but can't  because of your husband's infertility, and then say you're looking for alternative methods. Then let your husband drop the bomb and ask his brother.

In the end, there's really no bad way to be asked to have s*x with someone...

Answer 18

Agreed you are not a christian, but what are trying to do is morally wrong, how can you be sleeping with two brothers, if you despirately need a child then get him to donate his sperm, don't defile yourself by committing adultery and is also a sin against God.

Answer 19

Over dinner this weekend.  Also, you may want some type of written agreement beforehand, in case things spiral out of control.

Don't forget, you will have to address this with your child at some point.

Answer 20

All your thinking about is a baby.What about the effects on your marriage if you sleep with you husbands brother?Your husband may seem fine with it now because its just a suggestion but he will resent you for it.

Answer 21

I think you should leave it to your husband to ask him.  It's his brother afterall.

Answer 22

Try having his brother jerk off into a syringe and squeeze it into your p***y.  Your husband may be a little hurt if you start f*cking his brother, even if he says it's ok now.

Answer 23

Just say "brother in law...I want you to f*ck me so I can get pregnant....seems your brother is shooting blanks....It is his idea to get pregnant with your child...and he will just sit back and watch...so are you game?"

Answer 24

you, your husband and his brother should sit down and work out what needs doing and if everyone is in agreement...

also, are you wanting to have s*x with his brother because you want to get pregnant OR because you fancy his brother??? ;)

GO FOR IT!!! and enjoy the different s*x... h**l, enjoy a 3way too... ;)

Answer 25

This sounds so hot, so very very hot.

Answer 26

wow,i can just see the ace chewings you are gona get from these people , ,,but as for me, its kind of kinky,which i like but,it won't work,someone will get hurt badly,i dont know,maybe better to do the one night stand thing with some stranger,,hmmm interesting,,

Answer 27

you can just use his brothers sperm..instead of actually having s*x with him.  And if that is too expensive for you, then you shouldnt even be able to have a child...they are VERY expensive.

Answer 28

This is a very hard thing to ask someone to do. Maybe you should invite him over and let your husband start it off since he is probably closer to him than you. Tell him all the problems you guys have had and ask if he would be willing but don't expect a answer right away this is a big decision. Are you sure this will not cause problems with your marriage? Because you might not get pregnant the first time you might have to sleep with him several times.  

Answer 29

I honestly don't think this is a good idea. Did you guys think of the affect this might have in the longterm? This can put a strain on your marriage with you husband. Just because you sleep with him doesn't mean you will get pregnant the first time around. You may have to sleep with him for a couple of months at a time before you actually conceive. Your husband maybe ok with the thought now but is really gonna be ok with you having s*x with his brother? When you have s*x with him he will start to think did she do this with my brother or I wonder if he did this to my wife and if she liked it? This will destroy him. And what if you and his brother loves sleeping with each other? You guys will probably have an affair behind his back. Honey you are playing with fire!!! I understand how much you want to have a baby. I am also trying to conceive but sleeping with your husbands brother is not a good idea.

And another thing what will you tell your child? Will his uncle be considered his father or his father considered his uncle. You don't want to start a family with that type of secret because it always has a way to come out.

I pray you make the right choice. Good luck to you!!!

Answer 30

dont ever do this...... Please for god sake....... Dont......

Answer 31

Have him ejaculate and put it in a turkey bastor... Im amazed at the number of pregnancies that come out of it that way. THEN, its still brother-in-law's sperm, but you dont have to have s*x with him, so youre not cheating. Im serious when I say our friend did that when her husband couldnt get her pregnant, and she got pregnant from his friend.