Whats better to be sweet and funny or loud and popular?

Question

me and my old best friend are always in competion because she is so loud but she is actually horrible she was always put me down but knowone could tell cos she so fake to peoples faces anyway ive been told like the cute friendly one and shes the loud in your face one. Which one is better to be?

Answer 1

I dont think it matters. You are who you are and you cant change that. If your asking what kinda of personality lads will go for most than either. Different peopl enjoy different company, Mabe a shy lad will like a shy girl or a loud ald will like a loud girl vice versa i dont think loud an popular is that fun anyway, to me it just shows that they are trying to be somethig they are not by coving it up by being nasty. I hop this can help xx

Answer 2

Cute, friendly AND popular.  I wouldn't worry if I were you.  They are already saying you are cute and people get sick of really loud people.

Answer 3

Well i think it is better to be sweet and funny. loud and "popular" people arent actually as popular as you think. there is alot of people that dislike overly confident people as they are often rather annoying.

sooner or later people will see through your friends fake personality and she will lose those she calls her friends. bitchying about people and putting them down is not a good personality trait.

If she is putting you down theny why are you continuing with the friendship? friends arent supposed to be mean to one another. you deserve better friends. you also shouldnt feel like you constantly need to be in competition with her. Just be yourself which is 100% cooler then a fake ***** anyway. so over all you win the "competition".

Answer 4

If you aren't feeling good about your friend, move on. You won't benefit from that situation.

Answer 5

just be yourself  

Answer 6

sweet and funny. though i constantly try i can't be that though, i'm too quiet :(

Answer 7

Sweet and funny! :P

Answer 8

it is so much better to be sweet and funny and of course be yourself. if thats the kinda of "friend" she is than its a good thing you dropped her as a friend.  

Answer 9

Oh!  This is about you!

My original suspicion when reading your question was that you were asking us if it were better to DATE someone who is sweet/funny vs. someone who is loud/popular.

Answer 10

easilyyyyyyyyyyy the sweet and funny one! people always find out if someones really fake in the end, so it's better to actually have a good personality ( :

Answer 11

a mix of all of them is good, but not too loud!

Don't worry you sound like a much nicer person than her! (apart from saying this on YA lol...!)

Answer 12

its better to be sweet.,coz every one will lyk u.,.nd den ul be popular.,.

from my own perspective

Answer 13

sweet and funny =P