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Whats going on in my baby dads head?

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Im 18 years old and 9 months pregnant. The father of my child is 20 years old & when i found out i was pregnant he moved to california to stay with a friend; bc he was scared... im guessing. We had been together for almost 2 years and also got a dog together which stays with me & i pay for everything. After he came back we got back together, and he started to treat me worse than ever before. We finally stopped seeing and playing dumb break up games with eachother when i was about 7 1/2 months pregnant. he called me names all the time, fat & ugly bc it says it gets to me and that.. amuses him i suppose? He told his friends that he stays with me bc he feels sorry for me bc nobody else will want to be with me. and that he stays with me bc i gave him money and other things, but really i did it bc i loved him and i'd do nething for him? so i've been degraded by him & his friends must think im just an idiot (which is really embarassing) bc i feel like his little b**** or something. so he finally told me after staying with me all these months that he never wanted to b with me and that i forced him to be with me? and that he feels sorry for me and blah blah blah. He started going out and drinking behind my back when we both agreed to not drinking anymore bc it ruined us? he also started smoking weed which he has NEVER been apart of that, ever. everytime we talk he always says he's seeing someone else, but when i give him a taste of his own medicine he says "well i'm not like you i wasnt being serious about seeing someone else". but the next day he'll say he is seeing someone else. he tells me he hates me so much when realistically i never really did anything to him? i was a huge ***** to him throughout my whole pregnancy but only because he brought that out in me. calling me names nd doing all the stuff he did. i think i had a reason to be a *****. basically, i want to know whats going on through his head? what i can do to make him normal again? should i kill him with kindness, or be a *****? i ignore his phone calls constantly, but he ALWAYS calls me to see the dog. for her to go stay with him for a night. and im not having a custody battle with the dog, the dog was for me & him. if he doesnt wnt to b together thats something he's gonna have to forget about. i'm so confused, usually i can read people and see right through them but he's got me stumped. will he wanna try and be together once the baby is born? we have too much together to just leave me like that.

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  1. Hun, this man (child, more like) is bad news. You need to realize that you are not what he says you are. Make it very clear to him that either he shapes up, or he's out of your life. You can't let your child see and hear this guy treat you like this.

    Be strong, learn to appreciate yourself for who you are, and you'll attract a FAR better man. You and your child deserve better.


  2. you dont need c**p like that

    you are carring his child

    if he cant be a man and treat the mother of his baby with some respect get him out of your life

    you dont want to bring up a baby in that sort of situation


  3. Men really hate being trapped into being a daddy.  Yeah they like the s*x, but they figure the girl should take care of things so little accidents happen.  Little do they understand that few girls know how to really use birth control.

    You picked him to be your child's father, I guess you will have to learn to deal with it. Sorry.

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