Whats going on with him???

Question

Right this is a long story so i will try to make it short. When i was very little on my first day of pre school i met a friend. We was both the youngest in the class and we became best friends. Until the day he discovered i was a girl. We was still good friends all the way up until we was 12. so that's nine years of friendship. He decided he liked me in the non friend way when we was eleven. We went to different schools and we lost touch. I found him on my space and tried to talk to him, but his profile was no longer active. i contacted one of his friends who turned out to be his sister who made him a my space so we could talk. he replied to one message then ignored the rest of my messages. I didn't understand as when i saw him we chatted and he seemed genuinely pleased to see me. so i gave him my phone number, never heard from him again. I got really upset and sent him another my space message saying i had just wanted to be friends and i didn't understand why he was ignoring me. and still no reply... Please can you tell me what you think? oh i discovered he has a girlfriend they have been together five months but he never mentioned it.

Answer 1

There's your answer. If girlfriend has found out that he was talking to you...the green eyed monster of jealousy came thru. OR he may have decided that he didn't want to stay in contact. Don't worry, go your own way....you tried...it's up to him now...sorry bout your loss, friends are hard to come by

Answer 2

I don't know what the recent conversations consisted of so it's hard to say for sure about your situation. For me, I'm always happy to get a blast from the past but don't have much more time for what I already have on my plate. Also it sounds like from his inactive profile that he might get bored with the computer thing or doesn't care for it so had good intentions of keeping in contact with you but never finished through.  

Answer 3

"i discovered he has a girlfriend" you answered your own question. sorry.  gotta move on. blessings.

Answer 4

I think you should stop chasing someone who doesn't want to be chased.  It's borderline stalking at this point.

Answer 5

Too many words...

Answer 6

well ur just his friend rite? then ask him y he isnt talking to u, u shod march up 2 his house or tell hi sister 2 do sumthin 2. u hav to say things up front to him or he will nevr listen. and if u like him more then a friend and he got a new girlf then u hav to liv with that i guess, but if u want to b jus his frend then talk to him things will change 4 da bttr=] and if he just still ignores or sumthing or u cant find a way , corner him or force him to listen

Answer 7

he probably doesnt want to mention you to the gf so therfore is ignoring you or he thinks that he doesnt 'need' you (for want of a better word) as he now has someone!

At the end of the day if you've been friends all that time sounds like its his loss!!

Answer 8

People grow up and move on. He was probably pleased to see you after a long time, but you will have both changed and have different priorities. He didn't have to tell you about his girlfriend, you hardly know each other any more. Don't take offence just move on.