Whats going to happen next?

Question

im almost 20, im singal. all i really want is to find that perfect man and start myself a family. i love kids i work with them i want to live for them. nothing seems to be happening though. i get up i go to work i come home and sleep.. what kinda life is that?

Answer 1

" i get up i go to work i come home and sleep.. what kinda life is that?"

Sounds like the new American Dream to me!!!

Answer 2

welcome to the real woorld and believe me when it does happen, and it will, nothing changes then either

Answer 3

you need to have some sort of social life so that you can meet people.  

Answer 4

be patient.....go to church, go to the club, do something that gets you out....the right guy will appear when you're least expecting him.

Answer 5

i think u should try match.com or eharmoney.com n find some1 compadable to u. n really cares bout u. then u should have a family. best of luck!  

Answer 6

Try going to college.  Not only will you be learning, but you'll be around other people that share your interests, you'll be in a social setting, and you'll get to meet people from all different walks of life.  19 is way too young to be thinking about stuff like this.  You're at a stage in your life where you should be having (responsible) fun and finding yourself.  Most likely, what will happen is that you'll have a family at a young age, and then, in your 30s, you'll be like, "d**n, I should've done ___or I should've gone to this place or that place"...why do this to yourself?

You say you like kids; why not study teaching?  It's a fairly easy thing to study, it's about 4 or 5 years of school.  Try it!

Answer 7

i think if you can't find the perfect man to settle down with and you want kids adopt some maybe. you can love them as if they were you kids. as far as getting up and going to work and coming home and sleeping thats just an ordinary life

Answer 8

I say get your girlfriends together and have a 'girls night out'.  You never know - you might bump into that "special someone".

Whatever you do - if you do end up in a relationship - don't pressure the guy.  If things work out - that's great.  If he asks you about what you want out of life - then tell him that you would love to have a family.  If he doesn't back off - then he may be the one.  

Get out there and have a good time.  You deserve it.