Whats her problem?

Question

there is this woman that is a daughter of a friend that my mom deals with. her name is darlene and i think she has something against me.

i'm 5ft 0 inches and weight 140lbs and have an hourglass figure. i'm native american and indian mix .

she calls me fat when i not this creep tells me that i'm not what i am what i say what i am my dads indian and my mom is native american. she tries to convience me that i'm black like her. i have very long hair and a flawless complexion and she tells her sister in law on time that i was wearing a weave and i had on make up. i never wore a weave a day in my life as well as make up. i take pride on how i look so why is she saying stuff like this about and in front of me. one time i grew my nails extra long and for the past six months she was asking me when i was taking my tips off. i wanted to tell her off but couldn't. like i said i take pride in the way i look and i don't know what her problem is i really think she has something against.

Answer 1

she is most likely just jealous of u so i wouldnt take it to heart too much just keep on being proud of who u r because thats a great quality in a person, just take what she says sort of as a compliment because everything she says against u is just something she is jealous of

Answer 2

Hey Chic!!! You know what? I think that big ole green eyed monster has invaded her body!!!!

Seriously, I think she is totally jealous of you and maybe you intimidate her some. I would not worry about it, just keep being yourself and eventually she will fall flat on her face!!  She really sounds like a very shallow and insecure person. I would not let someone like her ruin my day.

Hope this makes you feel better!!!!!!!!  Talk atcha later!!

Answer 3

THAT B**** IS A HATER BRO.!!!  4REALZ SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO TALK TO U THAT WAY. IF UR ONE OF THOSE QUIET, SHY PPL, THEN TALK IT OUT AND SAY "LUK, U HAVE NO RITE TO TALK TO ME THAT WAY. I AM WHO I AM AND I DONT GIVE A d**n WHAT U THINK OF ME. IF U DONT LIKE ME THEN ITS UR PROBLEM." IF UR MORE LIKE ME, SAY SUMTHING LIKE, "LUK B****, DONT SAY THAT KINDA **** ABOUT ME CUZ I WILL BEAT UR A**." AND MEAN IT TOO.! BUT U PROLLY CANT, SO JUST SAY SUMTHIGN TO HER WHEN SHE SAYS STUFF LIKE "AT LEAST I LOOK BETTER THAN UR UGLY A** SO DONT HATE." OR, "I FEEL SRY 4 U CUZ UR UGLINESS FORCES U TO TALK TO PRETTY PPL THE WAY UR TALKING TO ME. THATS WHY U CANT GET A DECENT MAN." O AND BTW, NATIVE AMERICANS AND INDIANS R PRETTY DARK, BUT NOT BLACK, SO TELL HER, "UR SO STUPID U DONT EVEN KNO THE PPL FROM UR OWN RACE WHEN U SEE THEM.!"

Answer 4

Well I'm Black/Latino and I had a hard time getting that to my friends because they said my skin was pretty light but it's more like a golden brown color- and they came with the same idea saying I was Hispanic... only. WTF lol. But anyways, just tell her to hop off and go do something a little more productive rather than stand around and try to do/say things that make no sense at all.

Answer 5

Wow, so your an American Indian and a Indian Indian! That's a crazy mix.

BTW, who cares what she thinks! She's the daughter of someone your mom knows, for cryin out loud! She's nothing in your life! Doesn't matter what she thinks

Answer 6

a person like that has no manners or proper etiquette people like you should say " i prefer that you say nothing to me at all or don't dogg me and disrespect me because i don't disrespect you in anyway", people like her are most likely ones that no one wants to deal with so just ignore her.

Answer 7

Sounds to me like she is a bitter woman that is jealous in some way of the way you are.  You are not fat but you are not exactly skinny and you are comfortable with the way you look and obviously to her anyone who has the nice hair and nails must pay for it because she doesnt have it.  The best thing to do is to simply tell her the next time she says something that you are sorry you didnt know that she had a sight problem and can not see that your parents are not black and that although you see nothing wrong with the african american race you are indian and very proud of your culture and wish more people would get to know something about it then walk off.  When someone confronts you with something she has said just laugh it off and tell them yes I know she feels that way but thankfully my real friends know the truth.  You will run into a lot more people like this in your life and if you just brush it off you will keep your sanity.

Answer 8

Maybe because she is jealous of the way you carry yourself; with confidence and pride.

Continue to be yourself..