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Whats it like being a mum?

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i cant have kids so i was just wondering what im missing out on please thank you xx

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Its indescribable.

Amazing, but hard.
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no need to miss out, you can still adopt, i am a guy but i love kids, don't give up!
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i dunno but i love my mom.
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im not sure. im 11. ive read a lot of books for my age. more than most children. but the way mother's who have written books have described it, it can be VERY stressful. boys are always getting into trouble, and girls are always getting into catt fights. you remember how you were as a kid. ever try to p**s ur parent(s) off? i know i do. you are missing a lot, but your not missing any sleep.

PS: what about adopting?
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Well, there is the dirt, and the fertilizer....
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Well it is time consuming, heartbreaking at times, crazy,scary,fun,it is selfless,stressful  And the most protective love that you can imagine.

But many people who cannot have children adopt or voulenteer to help with children. It can be rewarding and fullfilling. I have had two children who were not biologically mine who lived with me whom I love dearly.

Like everything parenting has ups and downs but it always bounces back to that same thing just wanting what is best for your child if you love them.

I hope you find peace with this if you havn't already.  I can't imagine what the position would be like if I were in your shoes.  I have a daughter who does not  have children but does not know if she can and she is fine with it so far..she is in her 30's.
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i have a 22yr old, a 19yr old, and a 15mo old.

the major thing about being a mother is emotion - nobody in the world will ever have the capacity to make you this delirious with joy or absolutely raving NUTS with fury and *yet* you have to control it to set a good example for your kids. everything you do is filtered through "is this good for my kids?" "will they like this?" "is it healthy and safe?" yet at the same time, you can't let them know because they'll run roughshod over you demanding the best all the time and they need to learn to make do with what they have.

soooo... i guess being a mother is being constantly on the edge of insanity, lol.
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aww thats sad...im sorry..well being a mother is a hard,responsible job.most mother's go crazy in protection of their kids when they get hurt and mothers are just so loving.
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It is the hardest, most rewarding JOB in the world!
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why would you want to torture yourself with this question if you can't have children...? Unless of course it doesn't bother you.
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Exhausting. You can have a very full life without kids. I love mine, but sometimes I see my adult friends who have no kids and love seeing the freedom they have.
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Being a mother is huge responsibility taking care of children i have a wife and 2 children i am a father of 2 and i am 21 years old taking car of children is no easy task i dont do things like i used to anymore in fact i cant even shower without 1 or both of them taking a shower.

So far my wife takes care of the kids when i am gone working she works too and hires a baby sitter.

Its very hard u have to feed them wash them watch their every step almost every moment even when your not looking for a second.

Its like if u have a new born brother or sister or other u have to give them all what they need.

I was raised with brother and sister growing up with them changing their diapers feeding them check their temperatures help mom with their homework and so many things.

Today i am still doing the same thing changing diapers and taking them to the doctor i do the same thing with my young niece and nephew.

I was born and raised taking care of children barely taking care of myself and working our butt off trying to keep our children clean and giving them a bed and a home.

Being a mother is to much of a responsibility when u dont have much to give them unless u plan years ahead.
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It's hard but rewarding.

Sometimes i get really stressed with my son because he's a little pest but I love him loads and I wouldn't change a thing.

Why don't you adopt?
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it is alot of work and it is your whole world. i love being mom to my two girls. i am sorry you cant have any, my aunt is in the same situation so she adopted my cousin from russsia. she loves him so much and i hope and pray you will find something or someone to fill that void. it's not about missing out, and i hope u stop feeling that way. i hope u can adopt and have the great experience as every woman desires to have.
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Consider adoption. Being a mother is amazing. Watching them grow and learn is irreplacable. There are so many children who need a mother. You could be that. I am in foster care I know what its like wanting someone to love you. There are 3 kids(siblings) in my home who are about to be put up for adoption. Kids need moms like you who want them. Become a foster parent, its not that hard. I can walk you through it if you ever consider it. I am a 17 year old mother and I wouldnt ever go back and change it.
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It's the best thing in the world! You don't have to miss out, adopt!!
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well, it's not easy, but it's fun, it's great to have kids, they bring lots of joy but could give you a heartache...you just can't help, but love them...
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is a wonderful feeling, though is a little bit stressful, but is a good experience. un forget able.
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