Whats it like having a sister?

Question

okay so my parents r splitting up and im very, very sad. they r acting so childish. its just stupid. everytime i turn around its fight, fight, fight. so now my cousin might be moving in (shes 15 and im 13) and shes gunna be like my sis i guess but idk how sisters act? i've never had one and neither has she. so how do sisters act? how should i act around her? idk i noe sisters fight but i dont want us to fight. so...how should i act? should we talk to eachother alot? should i tell her EVERYTHING? idk please anser, thanxx!

Answer 1

I myself don't have a sister. I have an older brother. But I tell you this, shes your cousin you don't have to act any different around her. That's abit odd. Be yourself, be whatever you want. I'm sorry to hear about your parents.

Answer 2

Well she isnt your sister, so act like she is your cousin. You don't need to change the way you act around her coz she'll live with you.. just be normal.

Answer 3

You will have so much fun with her! You do not have to act a certain way she isn't your biological sister so i am sure you will have less fights but since she is your cousin i bet it will be funner. You can do girlie things and stay up with her and go shopping wiht ehr and tell her everything thats bothering you im suer you won't be really open with her at first but once you feel more comfortable you will deffinately loosen up around her. Just act the way you normally would and spark up some fun things to do with eachother. Hope i helped!

Answer 4

I have two older sister and a twin.. Sisters are very fun to have you always have someone to be around when you done feel like being alone. You don't have to tell them everything if you don't want to, only if you feel comfortable. Sisters do fight and I'm sure you guys will, but its never a fight that you don't work out. I know you must be going threw a very hard time right now.. My parents split up too so i know what you feel like and it helps having someone to talk to about it like a sister. This might be a good thing for you. I hope every thing works out and i hope i helped you some.  

Answer 5

My older sister amanda is like my best friend we hang out all the time and she is always there when I need someone to talk to

I tell her everything and we just connect

Answer 6

okay well i have two sisters ones older and a younger one and i would say to be friendly first because if you become really good friends then a sisterhood relationship evolves and then its just second nature so yhea treat her like you would treat a good friend and in time trust will form :>

Answer 7

Treat her like a new friend at first.

Get to know her, don't tell her too much until you are sure you can trust her with your important stuff. These things take time.

It may feel weird for her to move into your home so try to make her feel welcome without being in her face too much.

I have sisters. We got on when we were young, hated each other when we were teenagers, and got close again when we had kids!

Answer 8

It sucks

She threw me out the window when I was ten and she was 11 and told me I could fly :/

Answer 9

Act the way you normally act around your cousin. She isn't your sister. She won't become your sister by living with you. If she's like most 15 year old girls, she won't want anything to do with you. But if you guys get along good, just act normally and it will be fine.

Answer 10

Sisters are usually very close, when my sister and I where your guys age we did everything together, told each other everything!  Stuff we wouldnt tell our parents!!!  Having a sister is awesome...  But not all sisterly realationships are the same!!!!

Answer 11

Sisters suck!!!

Hers a real life example of why.- Today my sister was going to the mall and she left while i was in my moms bathroom taking a shower. So after i was done drying up i put on my robe and went into my room to dress. Than i walked into the hallway and the door was completely opened i was soo scared and freaked out. So i ran into my room and called my sister and asked her if she left the door open. And all she said was"oops my bad" and she started laughing. I was sooo mad at her. I was like, what if a crazy maniac came in here and raped me or something. Ughh i hate her!

Answer 12

Since you're gonna be sisters, practice pillow fights and story times.  You have to tell her EVERYTHING or else she'll lose faith in you.

Answer 13

Welll, it depends. If your close in age, you guys will get along alot better. My sister is 17 months older than me and we tell everything. Sometimes We get kinda aggravated at each other, but then we get over it. But we are like total opposites, and they say opposites attract, so, yeah, tell her alot of things you want to, unless she goes and tells everyone. ;-)

Good Luck!

Answer 14

well when you start fighting it means youre close.. so just go with the flow.

Answer 15

I can't even begin to describe what it's like having a sister!

Answer 16

Having a sister is like having a huge headache!! but sometimes having  1can be fun! I think yu should juss talk and have fun! maybe the situation of yur parents will leave yur mind