Whats it like to lose ur virginity? *GIRLS*

Question

ok im not sayin how old i am cuz tht dont matter but i heard when u first have s*x it hurts like childbirth. what are ur opinions??

Answer 1

Well, no it doesn't really hurt at all. It feels good.

Answer 2

Not like child birth, but it does hurt and I think it makes monthly cycles worse bcuz of the effect it has on hormones or whatever. I totally don't think you should until you are married though. Only because studies have proven that having s*x before leads to bad relationships, misjudgement, and depression. Which in turn leads to use of antidepressants and higher suicide rates and/or drug/alcohol use. I know for a fact this happened to me, my sister, and at least 12 girls I can think of off the top of my head.

I know that 9 of them are and have been convicted in the past for drug related incidents. One of the girls is still in prison and is pregnant and she is only 19. Almost all of them still have an addiction to drugs or alcohol. Those who don't are now believers in Christ and His forgiveness of all of our sins. 1 is dead of an alcohol overdose (believe it or not). I know it seems like a lot, but when you start having s*x you start to hang out w/ others who do in the party scenes and bars and stuff and one thing just leads to another.

Answer 3

Yeah it burns, The pain is immense, I dunno about child birth because ive never had a baby, But it hurts VERY badly the first time, I think I'm scarred for life...

PS Ofc it doeesnt hurt, if it hurt why would millions of people do it everyday? Its a PLEASURE, it feels good. Don't hold yourself back aslong as your the right age and with someone you truly love, Go for it. Don't do it for a dare, or becuase you were bored, Only if its with the right person.

Answer 4

It hurts because the hymen is being broken. Some girls have a thick hymen, some not, so how much it hurts depends. However, having a baby is like menstrual cramps X 100. Hurts like the dickens!

PS For me it felt like a horrible stinging sensation. I remember letting out a yelp and my partner saying, rather apologically, that he thought I would like it. Well, now I do like "it".

Answer 5

it only hurts because the p***s is stretching the v****a and over time it doesn't hurt, but child birth is alot worse you've got a baby's head coming out from down there but they will give you pills for that if you say you'll take them as some people want a natural birth without pills, but it does hurt- it also depends on the person and how big his p***s is

Answer 6

Well, emotionally it hurts when you give yourself to someone, they get what they want, dump you and move onto the next flavor. Don't let the "baby I love you" c**p fool you. The best part is when they tell everyone at school about your encounter and you get stamped "s**t."  To society it's only cool for guys honey.

Physically-yes it's very uncomfortable. It hurts and it's quite possible to feel sore for a few days.

Save yourself, I wish I had.

Answer 7

It depends on who you're with.For me, it didnt hurt at all, I was actuallly a lil bored and he left me wondering," why do women like having s*x?" for my best friend it was painful, she actually had to stop and try again the next day. However, either way, be prepared to bleed or to start your period.My friend bled for a while and I started my period.The bigger he is, the more it'll hurt!!!!!

Answer 8

it doesnt hurt that bad haha but it does hurt because ur hyman is breaking. however if u use tampons or have been in sum accidents it could have already been broken. it also hurts a bit because ur virgin stretches to fit the p***s in. i dont no wat to compare it to coz its not like alot of things umm it is uncomfortable to say at the least its like if an object wants to get somwhere but its blocked so it forces its way in umm it hurts enough to make it really uncomfortable and unenjoyable the first time. U also may bleed the first time

Answer 9

I wouldn't go as far to say it hurts like childbirth, but it does hurt! It is not what TV and the movies make it out to be. It is awkward, uncomfortable, and it does hurt! I lost my virginity at 15, and it was one of the biggest mistakes I have ever made. I was not mature enough

to handle all the drama that s*x brings, and I ended up pregnant at 17. So please, just make sure you wait until YOU are ready, don't let any guy force you to do something that you don't want to do. Make sure it is with the right person, because virginity is something you can never get back, no matter what. Good luck and I hope this helps!

Answer 10

not nearly as bad as child birth, but it hurts

Answer 11

Hurts like childbirth? HA. Yeah right. It doesn't hurt like that, but it sucks, because nothing good comes out of it.

And yes, your age matters, I'm not going to sit here and pretty much tell a 12 year old to go out and have s*x.

EDIT: It feels good for the guy, but it sucks for the girl.

If he goes in too deep, it feels like a knife stabbing you in your uterus. That's what it felt like for me, anyway.

Answer 12

no way, i dont think it felt like chilbirth at all, well depends on the person you do it with, but make sure you do iit with someone worth iit because if not u will regret it

Answer 13

It doesn't hurt like childbirth. It may hurt a little bit but it's not like pushing a baby out of you. After you have s*x for the first time it doesn't hurt anymore unless he goes in too deep.  

Answer 14

I haven't and I'm nearly 13 and waiting till marriage.

Answer 15

you get to keep the container it came it