Whats my problem?????????????????

Question

This is my second night in college. Im miserable. My roommates okay but shes got these wild friends, which id be okay with if mabe they acted like they liked me. . Im an attractive girl but im super outgoing. Im talkative but these girls are like over the top. when im around them they make me feel like a loser. I feel like i cant get a word in when we talk to guys so I look like a snob/mute. Will this ever change? I feel like intensely sad/

Answer 1

I don't think you have a problem.  I just think your roommates friends are self involved or just used to being around each other and not used to having an outsider in their group.  Give a few more days or weeks and see what changes.  Meanwhile, go out and find people that have the same interests as you.  Just cuz you have a roommate doesn't mean you have to relate to each other but respect each others space.  

Answer 2

don't be sad, you know it sounds like they might be jealous of you. that is why they take over the conversation, when you are there. just relax and focus on school, you did not need them to make yourself feel better or fit in, find you some new friends, surround yourself with positive people, people that are going places and doing the right things in life. you will be just fine, if at all possible think about finding somewhere else to stay if that

is all possible, because after all you did come there to learn. find new friends and a new interest besides them girls. don't worry just focus on what you came there for. and maybe you can find another place or see if someone is looking for a roommate where you can feel safe and comfortable. so good luck and god bless you. you will be just fine.