Whats next after a seperation and make up ?

Question

whats the next step/s

we have had a bust up ....seperated ....talked .....and we may get there .....by that i mean a good relationship at a distance

how do we start to try and get close again ? ....apart from the obvious slow approach

does anybody have the experience

whats next

and then after that ....

Answer 1

well after almost twenty years of marriage my husband left me and our kids two of them are disabled,anyway for the first month he treated me like absolute **** and then we started talking i realised i stuffed up on things so did he now we are dating and i know that sounds funny after being together solong but we are dating. i suggest you start to date again start remembering the things you use to have and the new things you have now.if it is like mine then you will do fine,trust me it is so romantic to think that they are dating you again its like falling in love all over again so go for it and have fun doing it tooalways have fun and it should work out the way you want them to.just try and dont let people around you start to say things to try and stop you you are the one who wants to be with him not them.

Answer 2

love does some crazy things to people..can't really fight it. just go with the flow and how your heart feels.  

Answer 3

Not much the hurricane is gone why start another storm?

Answer 4

Hopefully it's not more of the same ole same ole that got you both separated, so my personal advise would be to not repeat past mistakes and approach your relationship in a different level, change nothing & nothing changes, so take the right steps to ensure that you both are getting back together for all the right reasons. Also before you get into deep, make sure this is really what you want, sometimes we think we want something, only later on down the line we start questioning if this was the right decision?  In regards to how you become close again, well that is something only you two can do, and above all, it's gotta be their, meaning you must have respect and passion for the person with whom you are in the relationship with. I wish you luck.