Whats not fake about a black women?

Question

Dont get me wrong sistaz are beautiful,but what makes you ugly to me is how u change and alter yourselves to look like other races, mainly white. I watched this documentary on slavery and what they did to are women you still see today.The women ,but mainly little girls where token away and put in w***e houses.To make the girls look more attractive to the white men they staightened there hair and dressed them suductively.Can u picture 12 year old black girls with perms? If you can thats what it looked like. Look at today; black women every where ware perms, you think and they'll say it's because their hair is easier to manage that way,but the truth is that since those w***e houses in slavery up until now black women are taught from birth that their ugly the way they nuturally look with thick curly hair and the white look is more attractive, so thats what their acustomed to and what they'll teach their little girls.Next their wearing all these diffrent color contacts.All I'm saying is if a black woman spends all their beauty time in the mirror trying to look like a white women her man might as well go get one.

Answer 1

girls do stuff that for guys ♥  

Answer 2

I HOPE YOU KNOW YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE, I WOULDN'T ASK QUESTIONS LIKE THAT IF I WAS YOU. but like i said on the other questions i don't dislike all black women only the american one. those women in africa are the real women. they are the proud women, when i went to russia to study. there was a lot of african women there that was smart an proud of there culture. they also had good personalities. THERE ARE A FEW BLACK WOMEN IN AMERICA LIKE THIS AN I MEAN A VERY FEW. but most black women in america are scared to be themselves for some reason but i don't know why BECAUSE PURE AFRICAN WOMEN ARE GOOD LOOKING

Answer 3

First of all, black men SHAME black women who don't perm their hair, lighten their skin, wear contacts, etc. Black men don't like black women who are "average" looking black women. They don't like nappy/kinky hair, dark skin, dark eyes, etc. Which is very hypocritical, because black men are dark and have nappy hair. A black man WILL NOT hit on a black woman with nappy hair or natural hairstyles. If two black women walked passed a black man, one with a natural short hair and the other with long weave & contacts, 9 out of 10 the black guy will go for the girl with the long weave. So you need to STFU!

Also the media plays a HUGE role in how every woman veiw herself. Just like you see black women trying to be white (like you claim) there are plenty white women who get tans, boob and/or butt implants, lip injections, hair extentions, etc. Who are they trying to be? I have of white girl friends who tan regularly. One is a natural blonde and the other 3 all dye their hair blonde. They buy lip-plumper lip glosses. And get extentions. Sometimes I even get hair extentions when I feel like spending $800 at the salon. Does that mean I'm trying to be white? Or they're trying to be black? Or maybe we just like throwing money around because we can? Living in such a diverse city like Los Angeles, I see PLENTY of Asian girls who get tans, wear eye contacts, and dye their hair blonde or get blonde streaks or high lights? Some asians even have surgery on their eyes to look more what? Who are they trying to be? When you live in a soceity that focuses so much on looks and you have the media constantly telling you what to look like and how much to weigh, you feel pressured into comfirming to such beliefs. And this is problem that all females go through. And even if the media wasn't bias, these are just things girls like to do. We like to be pretty and try different looks and styles. How often do you see straight men wearing colored contacts, hair extentions, getting false nails? It's only acceptable on a girl and is a girl thing. Why do you think male cross-dressers, cross-dress? To try out different trends and alter themselfs the way women do.

Black men (not all) are hypocritcal b******s. If a black girl is dark-skinned the black guy want a light-skinned black girl. If a black women has nappy or short hair or just wears her hair natural hairstlyes (no perm, weave) black men consider her ugly. If a black female perm her hair or wears weave black men will pick her over the girl with nappy hair. Then complain about it, like your doing on Y!A. Yall dumb@sses don't know what yall want. And it's crazy because yall are unattractive and dark-skinned with big lips and big noses and nappy hair! Very pathetic of you to criticize others when MOST of you have the same features. But I don't care what you think because my white man loves me with and without makeup or extentions. You need to go and stand your black @ss back on the street corner and sell some weed and drugs. Sorry but asking stupid questions on Y!A is not gonna get your rent payed. Oops...I forgot! Your a free-loader living with some woman while she works and pays all the bills and you do nothing. Just go make yourself useful  and take care of one of your 7 b******s kids.  

Answer 4

Do you hate black women or something? I see your questions and you sound so bitter

Answer 5

ALL women, not just black women alter themselves and we look nothing like we would if left in our natural state. You can thank the media for that and also thank other men who equate beauty with what they see in mainstream media. So, we all do it. As for the hairstyles, it IS easier to manage, period. Unlike past days, most women have to work, children in the mix, hectic lifestyle--we need something that looks good and to go.

Answer 6

Meanwhile white women give themselves skin cancer lying in the sun trying to make their skin look brown.

Muslim women are the women that don't hate themselves.

And a lot of them are gorgeous.

Answer 7

..majority of my fellow black sisters are very superficial.....my mother used to perm my hair because it was easier for her to do..but ever since I moved out and started my own life..i stopped perming and I wear a natural afro or african braids.....But I blame it on the media though....look at Beyonce, Tyra Banks, Oprah, Paula Patton, Kimberly Freemen, Kyla Pratt...i guess many sistas out there are superficial to an extent....BUT..white women or the most superficial...my black sistas may temporarily change their looks but most white females permenatly change their looks..Can you say Nose job?

***James Dean as my heart***..girrl..u said it best!!!!!!!! You see, it is because of these black men and their ignorance, they make us date outside our race.  And then these b******s would start to complain about how hard it is to find a strong black woman. These is what made me unattractive to black men because of their ignorance....

Answer 8

You say that they got their hair straightened and that they are brought up to think that their naturally thick curly hair is ugly. Then you say they get perms. Are you sure you know what a perm is??

Answer 9

their butts! boy are those things 100% real or what.

Answer 10

I see where you are trying to go with this,but your information isn't correct.There is recorded documents that show even during Black Egyptian times black women wore weaves and wigs.

There should always be a balance on whatever anyone does.Some do abuse it and take it to the extreme.

Asian women, Koreans,chinese,E.Indians bleach their skin till they can't anymore just to have the white skin color.(i live in Asia)

White women bleach their hair to look blond.

I myself prefer a natural woman as well,but to trying to convince all black women to think as you do just won't work.

Just let people grow on their own time.I was a victim of the jerry curl in the 70's lol(never again)

Answer 11

Dear Quentin M, This is the second time I've seen you ask a question in a very negative way about black women.  I have never seen other men of other races hate on their own women like some black men do.  Did someone hurt you?  Are you aware that most white women dye their hair blonde?  Get breast implants?  Lips pumped?  But how many white men come here and complain about it?  Why the constant criticism about black women and their hair?  I don't wear hair weave, and I have worn my hair natural before.  Most black women I know, including myself, relax our hair, NOT because we are trying to be white, but because its easier to comb and style.

To the person who said black women in Africa are more real, braiding hair came from Africa, and that usually involves braiding in extensions.  How does this make American black women less real and more fake than other women in the world?  Are we supposed to all wear Afros and only then be considered real?

Answer 12

All women have fashion magazines and media shoving a certain look at us.

White women are all going blonde or having tummy tucks and breast implants etc.

Everyone is so focused on the outer appearance that it is all getting out of hand, nobody is happy with themselves.

As long as the whole world is only concerned with the material world, we are all in trouble.

Answer 13

Yippie. Just what we black women need...another hypocritical, self-hating ni***

Answer 14

Okay, since you're over here stereotyping black women, why don't I stereotype you. Why are so many black man thugs? Why are black men lazy? Why don't black men take care of their children? I'm sure you were offended by those questions.

Honestly, the only thing I've found fake "on" (not "about") black women is their hair. I think that is perfectly fine. And black women are not the onlys who are "fake". Some Asians like to dye their hair blond. Does that make them fake. I think not.

Ever heard the saying "whatever floats your boat." I think if a black woman thinks that by getting a weave makes her feel beautiful, then let her be.

And how the h**l is straighten your hair fake?  

Answer 15

I'm just gonna very slowly step away from this question... dangerous territory.