Whats so wrong with adopting a kid?

Question

why are you going after your moms? I love my mom. so whats so bad about loving a kid.

Answer 1

Nothing, if they need a home.

Trouble is, people aren't giving homes to the thousands of kids who really need them.  They just want what they want (many times a fresh-from-the-womb baby) so the kids who really need  homes are left behind in foster care

Answer 2

I don't think that there's anything wrong with adopting a child o.0

Answer 3

Cool,

i am level three baby.

Anyways-

Nothing. Nothing is wrong with adopting a child! infact they NEED you! they want/need to be adopted, so nothing is wrong with that, what so ever!

Nothing

is bad about loving a child. go ahead, love one. Adopt, it is noone elses choice, or bussiness.

Answer 4

nothing is wrong with loving a child. i adopted my friends daughter after she committed suicide last year even though i have had her since she was a baby i love her like she is my own because she is my own even though i didn't give birth to her

Answer 5

Huh?  Who's going after their moms?  I love my moms.

Being adopted sucks, but both my moms are great.

Answer 6

what?

Answer 7

HI,I'M ADOPTED TOO. SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST JEALOUS. THAT THEY DID NOT HAVE THE RIGHT PERSON TO LOVE THEM. DON'T LET THEM GET TO YOU. IT DOES NOT MATTER TO ANYBODY ELSE IF YOU MOTHER LOVES YOU.IT ONLY MATTERS TO YOU.AND YOU ONLY......

Answer 8

I think that it is awesome that people want to give kids a good life that they were not given by their birth parents.

Answer 9

My little sister and brother are both adopted, and they also felt bad about it. I just told them that they should feel special and loved because their parents chose THEM! They could have chosen another child, but then wanted THEM.

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Answer 10

whats your beef dude.

Answer 11

.  I can understand what the question is trying to say. Those who have been adopted and frequenly answer questions on here, it does often come across as though you dislike adoption, and wish that your adoptive parents had never adopted you. I think thats because people don't always specify if they want to adopt older children, and its generally assumed that people want to adopt infants. I made that mistake myself, and received very angry responses.

Answer 12

Nothing is wrong with adopting a child.  However, there is also nothing wrong with wanting to learn more about your biological parents and your heritage.  You CAN love more than one person.

Answer 13

I don't see anything wrong with adopting. Are a lot of people saying negative things to you? I am assuming you are adopted.

Answer 14

if you're going after my mom...are we related?

Answer 15

Nothing is wrong with it, but people have different feelings on adoption based on what they have been through. My adoption was perfect, but other peoples adoption may have been very different.

Respect other people and their circumstance. Thats the way of it.

Answer 16

nothing is wrong with adopting .. actually i think it is good bc that way you get a child .. and the child gets a guardian and the child's mom didnt give birth to him so he can be in an orphanage but to have a nice home and fmaily

Answer 17

Not sure what this question is about but I can tell you that I think my mom's insane and I wasn't even adopted...

Answer 18

nothing is wrong with adoption, i think all kids that have been adopted out have the right to know that has happened to them, and need to know where they have come from for this very reason. life is already hard enough without adding to it.

Answer 19

Who said there's anything so wrong with adopting a kid?

Answer 20

Nothing at all.

Answer 21

Adopting a needy is the wish of the Lord. You will be rewarded here and hereafter.

Answer 22

Who is going after their mom?

I'm not going after my mom.

I did lose a mom, though.  I had to lose her because I was adopted.  And I lost a dad, and a brother, and a sister, and 2 grandmothers, and 2 grandfathers, and 4 cousins, and 2 aunts, 2 uncles, and my step-grandfather.

Is it so bad to mourn the loss of an entire family because I was adopted?  I love my family, and I missed out on having them in my life.  What's so bad about loving your family?

Answer 23

there is nutin wrong wit that

Answer 24

So you're confused about why adoptees are having a go at their adoptive moms for adopting them???

Are they? I'm not mad at my a parents for adopting me. I'm mad at my b parents for giving me up.

Answer 25

nothing people just dont ........................................