Whats the best way for a man to remove unwanted hair from his back?

Question

I'm taking my girlfriend away to Paris for a long weekend for her birthday, I'v booked us into a really posh hotel that has a health spa/beauty salon type thing on the premises so she should love that, anyway, we have decided that we are going to sleep together for the first time, the thing is she has never actually seen me shirtless, well not properly anyway, and I think my hairy back might turn her off.

I lift weights and play alot of sport so I don't really have any hang-ups about my body except this one thing, its not freakishly hairy but I know women hate that ****.

What is the best way of de-hairing my back before next friday?

I was thinking I could get waxed in that beauty place at the hotel but id feel so feminised and it would mean coming out of the clausete about my hairyness lol

Anyone know the best way to go about this?

Answer 1

Many many guys get their backs waxed.  Don't be scared and just go for it.  She will appreciate it.  You can't shave because you probably won't ba able to reach it all and you don't want her to feel stubble.

Answer 2

go to a salon or something before you go away. if she loves you she won't care. my boyfriend is very hairy and i love it :) so not all girls hate it.

Answer 3

Get it waxed...

Answer 4

Dude, chill. Take some hair remover with you. Ask her if she likes your hairy back, if not, ask her to smoother you in hair remover whilst in the bath with her sat behind you and remove said hair with scraper (this part she will not refuse). You lucky boy.

Answer 5

Get your girlfriend to wax/pluck them out for you.

It's what I do for my boyfriend and we both enjoy it!

He loves all the attention and I love straddling his bum and helping him out :)

Answer 6

you could go visit ma or sis before the trip and bring some hair remover...of course you will have to listen to sis say.....ooooo gross, yuk...hahahha.

Answer 7

My boyfriend uses Nair for men , it works really well ! Just follow the directions and you should see great results !

p.s. if your back isnt freakishly hairy ... it doesnt turn us women off , but we love it when there's no hair :)

xox  

Answer 8

wax...lottsa men do it

Answer 9

Get a wax, my hubby did, and he loved it.  There is no shame in it.

Answer 10

Hi, waxing is the answer. http://epictureperfect.net/hair_removal....

Answer 11

I get my back waxed every couple of months and have done regularly for about 10 years now, it hurts a little but nothing too much.

get it done soon because it will be  a bit spotty for a few days after as a reaction to the treatment but then it will be fine.

Have you asked her if she likes hairy men or not? you may be wasting your time thats all.

Answer 12

You should really relax and be confident with yourself. Especially if this is the beginning of the relationship. Think about if she started asking what you thought about her cellulite or thighs or something. you would notice it more, focus on it, and see her as insecure.

Be yourself, and if you guys become more serious (and comfortable with each other) maybe you can be more candid with each other about these little quirks. I would get kind of freaked out if my boyfriend waxed his back, i would wonder what the h**l he was thinking. Go watch 40 year old virgin.

Be confident, have a fun weekend,don'tt sweat your little imperfections, remember no one is perfect!