Whats the best way to get over someone who hurt you?

Question

There was this guy who was chasing me for 3 years and i kept on rejecting him because i knew what kind of guy he was, one day i finally decided to give him chance and what i thought about him turned out to be true. We were together for a while and he would ask for things and get soo mad wen i wouldnt give it to him so finally wen i did he turns and says he has a girlfriend... i ignore him for a month an then he tells me he broke up with his girlfriend but i rejected him. Its been over 4 months and i cant stop thinking about him, what should i do??

Answer 1

I agree with runner. this person seems to be selfish and use to getting his way. you took alot of time to give into this person. i know it's hard but ask yourself "do you deserve that kind of person in your life? it sounds like you are a pretty good judge of character, i believe that you know you shouldn't be involved with a man like that. as hard as it is to get over someone that you feel for, i suggest you try to keep yourself busy. keep your mind occupied with things to do so that the focus isn't on him all the time. are you a believer of christ? if you are start calling out to him and asking him to help you to get over that man. He will you will be suprised. I hope it all works out for you. Good luck

Answer 2

You should shank his ***.

Answer 3

get a rebound dude and don't look back. whatever you do, don't let him plead his case face to face because a manipulator like him would most definitely succeed.

Answer 4

i think you did the right thing. this guy really likes you i think, but he is very imature and not good for you.

people change, but you can't change him. he has to change by himself. if i were you i would keep friendship with him and tell him i will be with him again if he really changes, but until then i will care about him as his good friend.

Answer 5

Don't do it. this guy seems like bad news. He gets mad when things don't go his way. It will lead to an abusive relationship. Trust me.

Answer 6

He's a jerk

Keep that in mind

I dont know why girls go crazy over jerks

When you're thinking about that jerk, you better believe that you're the last thing on his mind

Answer 7

Love is a wild beast. You can't tame it,it needs time.

You'll forget him in due course.

Sorry,I wish I had a magic potion. I haven't . There isn't one.

We've all been there.

Good luck. You'll be wiser next time.