Whats the best way to get revenge on a cheater?

Question

i'm usually not a vengeful person but she did it once and said she wanted me back a month later and i took her back after stalling for a week. shes doing it again and doesn't know i know yet. so what to do...

Answer 1

You want the best revenge is? No revenge. If this is the second time, then she's not worth it. Tell her you know. Tell her your feelings and walk out. Don't yell, don't be mean. Be nice. She'll figure out her mistake soon enough.

Answer 2

You should go out with her again, than cheat on her with one of her friends, than tell her about it.

Answer 3

I agree with answerer number 1. Just say, "You know, this isn't really working out." Better yet, tell her in a text message and don't take her calls/texts. You deserve better, and frankly, she already knows she's cheating, so she doesn't really deserve your time of day for an explanation. If that's not dramatic enough, call the show Cheaters.

Answer 4

The best revenge is no revenge, no reaction.  Just break up with her and have no contact with her whatsoever.

Part of her really needs you.  That's the revenge.  You don't give it to her, at all.  Don't even be angry or happy or anything.  Just tell her sorry, but you can't stay with a cheater.  You don't even have to say that you know what's happening now.  Just say that you've come to the conclusion that her previously cheating on you is not something you want to live with.

Show by example that she's not worth even thinking about.  Act as if she is absolutely nothing, as if she doesn't exist, never did, and never will.

Answer 5

GET A HOT NEW GIRL. ALWAYS ACT HAPPY. ALWAYS BE NICE TO HER. BUT ON NO MEANS TAKE HER BACK.

trust me it will work! just dont be all clingy nd depressed.

good luck, if that fails u could always kill her.

joke.

Answer 6

Just end it, unceremoniously, and let her figure out why.  And begin making a Plan B for your life.  Being happy without her will be the best revenge.

Answer 7

i agree with the majority. just give her an absolute flatline. tell her u know she's cheating. end it calmly without blinking. walk away and never speak to her again.

people HAVE to learn that there are consequences to bad behavior. I'd rather be the guy she looks back at with regret than the guy she cheats on over and over while her and her friends are having a good laugh about.

and when u do this, make no mistake... she'll assume she can get u back in a month again. let's hope she's wrong this time.

good luck.