Whats the best way to get your man to leave the female he lives with to be with you?

Question

I don't want him to know I had anything to do with letting her somehow find out we have been together for over 1 year behind her back. Ladies help me find a way.

Answer 1

Save yourself the heartache and go find someone who truley wants to be with just you!  He will never leave her and if he does, he will do the same to you. You can't break them up, telling her will just get her and him fighting, and yes she might leave him, but how do you know he will turn to you?  Move on.  

Answer 2

Unless the female he lives with is his mother, then you need to let him go. There's nothing worst than ruining a great relationship.

Answer 3

No

If you have to make him leave you are not going to be happy and neither is he.

That is it let it go.

Answer 4

Guess what, If he hasn't left her by now, he isn't going to. And if he does leave her for you, who's to say he isn't going to leave you for someone else. Go find a single guy.

Answer 5

Go find a man that isnt taken, then you wont have to worry about him spending all his time with her. Obviously he wants to be with her more, or else why are you the one being hidden?

Answer 6

From a guys standpoint.. if he hasnt left by now, he's not going to.  You will always be the other woman to him.. no matter what he tells you.

Your only option is to stay content with the discreet weekend s*x or whatever arrangement you have, because you will always be second to the one he lives with.

He's just having is cake and eating it too. (Lucky b*****d)

Answer 7

Go find your own man.

Apparently if he is still living with her he doesn't want to be with you.

Answer 8

you are a stinking @@@##

If he really loved you he would have left himself!

Answer 9

Well basically no matter how hard you try, he has to leave her on his own. Is he willing to leave her ? if not, stop deluding yourself you have a future with him. Trust me. I know what I am talking about.

Answer 10

I think you might be obsessed with him, instead of being in love. If he hasn't left her to be with you... wouldn't that tell you that MOST likely you're just a fling? He doesn't care about you. I personnally wouldn't bother with a person like that. I was in a similar situation, and trust me it's a waist of time, life, and most of all it's lack of respect towards you, and the other woman!  Just because you've been together for one year doesn't mean he's serious. Move on and RESPECT yourself. best of luck.

Answer 11

Hes got 2 women to do hes in heaven... He dont want that boat rocked.

Answer 12

IF you are seeing this man behind his partners back best way is to leave him and see what happens. but even if he chose you what's to say he wont cheat on you? Once a cheat always a cheat. You will never be able to trust him. One day when he does the same to you remember what goes round comes round.

Answer 13

WHY would you want a man like this???

I guess you have no problem eating the leftovers...

Sounds like you need to build up your self esteem and find a man who is not committed to someone else.

Full, hot meals are much more full-filling than crummy ole leftovers...

Answer 14

Wow. This is the guy you want? Someone who made a promise that probably included the words "for as long as you both shall live" and then broke it.

What you need to do is forget him and get in a healthy relationship. Stop being the other half of a bad decision. As mutual as it may have been.

Answer 15

  

Do a nude rain dance on his front lawn

Answer 16

NO!!

How do you feel knowing you are second best??  

Answer 17

He's cheating on her.  You know he's a cheater.  You know he doesn't value commitments or honesty.  Why in the world would you want him?

If you do anything at all to instigate a break-up, or if you intentionally do something or arrange it so that she finds out about you, he's going to find out.  He isn't going to fall to his knees and thank you for setting him free.  If he wanted to leave, he would have left already.  If you cause the breakup, especially if you do it by telling his girlfriend, he's going to hate you.  At the very BEST case, he will always resent you.

He has a girlfriend at home and an easy lay on the side.  From his point of view, life couldn't be any better.  He doesn't want it to change.  

And if he does leave her for you, he'll be out looking for another easy lay on the side soon enough.  And then some other woman will be on here asking the rest of us what SHE can do to force him to leave YOU.

Karma's a real b*tch.  

Answer 18

I believe in Karma........the best thing for you to do is stop seeing this guy and find someone that is single. I think what you are doing is negative and manipulative.  

Answer 19

He isn't going to leave until he's ready to.Listen to Keshia Cole song,"Let It Go".It aint where he's at, it's where he wanna be.

Answer 20

If he is living with another woman, then he isn't "your man".  Back off, and quit being a home wrecker.

Answer 21

things like this have a way of backfiring on the one doing the hurting.best to not try to influence things, will only come back on u.after all this time if he wanted to leave her he would have already done it.he is using u both and cheating on u as well as her.

Answer 22

ha ha...just shows how desperate you are!

Answer 23

another homewrecker!

Answer 24

He is right where he wants to be.  

Answer 25

I'm sorry, I'm not so hard up that I would be taking someone else's man away to begin with.  Why would I want sloppy seconds?

Answer 26

When that reality check posts and clears, it's going to be a doozy...