Whats the best way to show that you are sorry and apologetic?

Question

Which is better to send to a friend who you made mad and is no longer talking to you or responding to emails, phone calls, and texts, flowers, a letter, or a cd with songs that are talking about being sorry and apologizing? I really want to make it up to my friend and let her know I am terribly sorry for what happened between us, but right now she wont talk to me and I just want her to know I am thinking about her and hope we can move past what happened, but I dont want to make her madder either.

Answer 1

Flowers also help!

Answer 2

Respect her wishes not to respond to you.  Stop bombarding her.  Send ONE sincere, written letter, then wait at least a week before sending her ANOTHER (not a bunch) message.  Then, wait.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Back off...a little.

What did you do!!?

You have tried alot, but give her some space to think things through..it might not be what you want to hear, but people NEED space. Like more than a week (from you constantly barraging her) depending on what happened!

How long has it been since she stopped talking to you...assuming you aren't sending flowers to a guy!?

Answer 4

First things first, give yourself time to breathe. No matter what you do, positive or negative, may not change her mind about you. If you want to send her something, send her love from a distance meaning ... "if you love someone, let them be free, and if they come back, they were always yours in the first place." Timing is essential, but don't let too much time past. However, don't be overbearing with the texts, flowers, gifts, etc, these items may only remind your friend of the negative situation and make her more upset.

Answer 5

Getting down on the ground and l*****g her boots would be pretty convincing.

Answer 6

flowers and a note.

Answer 7

Talk to whoever you are trying to apologize to, but make sure you don't look all sappy. Just try to show them that you're truly sorry without making it look like you just want them off your back.