Whats the difference in your mind between haveing s*x and making love?

Question

s*x to me is wham bam thank you mam your never to be seen again and making love is asking that person to stay.

Answer 1

s*x is when u have been with someone too long and can't stand the thought of going to bed with them and just want to get it over with. Making love on the other hand is passionate and loving and starts at the beginning of most relationships. Making love you are in love with the person. Well that's how I personally look at it.

Answer 2

s*x can be just the act itself, cold and one word.

making love is exchange of intimacy between you and your partner and it involves more than just s*x, theres intimacy,love, passion and lust for one another =)

Answer 3

like a one night stand against a relationship.

one you only see the person once.

the other can be for a lifetime if you have feelings for them

Answer 4

To me, having s*x is awesome and fun, but "making love" is creepy and lame

Answer 5

Making love=love

having s*x=lust, or personal pleasure

Answer 6

s*x is an action when love is a strong feeling towards someone  

Answer 7

I think your close but i would say having ''s*x'' is like.. you have no real long feeling with that person and you wont be seeing her much longer.And love for me is picking some one spacial you really like and making ''love''.

Answer 8

In movies its a nicer word but to me s*x is just s*x and making love is passionate and there is love involved.

Answer 9

WELL as i konw for most people or for most guys ''they think is the same'' but not for a firl''

when we think about s*x in out mond is like somethink happend in 1 miniute & is finish but LOVE is somethink that happens & it docent finish so early is somethink special you see!

Answer 10

I dont remember.

Answer 11

s*x is rough, love is nice and easy

Answer 12

s*x is s*x, making love is when a chick really digs you she tells her friends we "made love" to makeit sound more romantic and special .thats what i think..

Answer 13

Having s*x- F******

Making love- Passion

Answer 14

Hi, s*x is casual or with someone that u don't love, where as making love is more intense & is special..When u love someone its a whole new experience & is " Out of This World "..You will know which is which..

Answer 15

I thought it was the same thing, just different words.

Answer 16

making love is more jentill than having s*x

s*x is good s*x is fun doggy style of 69 just for fun or getting paid everybody loves getting laid!!!

ture that tho" s*x is fun and fealss betahhh lol  

Answer 17

It really is a difference in intimacy. s*x is something that you can have with just about anyone, no real feelings have to be involved.

Making love, on the other hand, is about a connection. It doesn't have to be slow and like you see in a movie, but it does emphasize your connection. If it makes you feel closer, no matter the speed of the act, then it is making love.

s*x doesn't last much past you putting your clothes back on, emotionally. Making love only prolongs the feeling and makes you want even more intimacy with that person.

Answer 18

having s*x is a pleasure you can have s*x to anyone even if you dont love that person while making love is between you and your love one,

Answer 19

Having s*x is a temporary function to have a baby. Love can be shared with everyone and is eternal. Commitment makes people stay. Go after just s*x it is a form of prostitution.  

Answer 20

F**king is like "BAM BAM BAM BAM BAM BAM!!!" jack hammer style...

Making love is like "BAM.......pause.....BAM........pause......

Answer 21

You are so right. An excellent question because many people do not know the difference. Let me be a little more detailed but we are both on the same page.

You make love with someone you care about and want to share that most intimate of feelings with. It is the most precious gift you can give, yourself. It is the most profound way of saying how much you care. It is a way of saying all that you feel for this love of your life without words. That, to me, is what lovemaking is. You enjoy it because of your love for this man or woman.

s*x, on the other hand, is a biological need and anyone will do, period. There are no emotions involved really. You do it, get up and leave. Nothing else. In other words someone is using someone else to satifsy that urge.

Answer 22

having s*x = playing with your body and your partner.

making love = sharing the happiness with the one you truely love.

these two are tremendously DIFFERENT.

Answer 23

To me the diff is s*x has no feeling except to feel good. Making love is suppose to be shared between to adults that's in it for more then just feeling good.

Answer 24

same thing

Answer 25

It can be the same thing or you can make it mean different things.  There is no clear cut answer to this question.  s*x is s*x no matter which way you do it.

Answer 26

s*x is what I wanted as a kid.

What I want when I lust

It is the appetite equivalent of ravenous hunger

Making love is the process of sharing intimacy and pleasure in a way that builds us up emotionally to support each other.

The appetite equivalent of an excellent desert

s*x is the bodily function

Making love is the satisfying of your loved one's appetite.

Answer 27

s*x is just s*x (physical, not really emotional)

making love is more passionate...when you're all in love w/ the other person.

Answer 28

I agree.  That is why it is better to wait....Make him wait..just keep saying.."i am not ready for this yet."..keep repeating yourself...It does WORK!!! If he doesn't want to wait then let him move on...cuz if that is all he wants...

Answer 29

s*x is all physically, where lust plays dominance.

Making love is where not just two physical bodies meet together but even their souls meet to the emotions and feelings deep with in the two. They are more gentle on each other though the pace may vary, they care for each others needs and requirements, their feelings and that's what is called making love.

s*x is nothing but lust taking over the two bodies for mutual understanding of full filling physical desires of lust.