Whats the fear where your frightened of ' giving a little bit of your love ' to people incase they reject you?

Question

you wanna ' give a little bit ' but if i do they might reject me..

how do i overcome this ?

Answer 1

Start by giving "within yourself" first.  You don't necessarily have to verbalize it to others.  Think it, imagine yourself sending "vibes" of love and goodwill to them.  The more you imagine it within the more it will stop feeling like it's such an effort on the outside.

Answer 2

That's a simple fear of rejection. I have the same fear, but my low self-worth makes me expect the rejection, so I'm not really surprised by it.

Expect the worst, and hope for the best. That's all you can do. There are people out there who will reject you. There are people who will not. The only way to find out who will or will not is by trying.

Here, just to show it's not that bad, I'm reaching out! <big hugs>

Shall you accept, or deny? :)

Acceptance will leave me pleasantly surprised. Denial will simply leave me where I was before, no worse for the wear.

EDIT: That was tough. Now I feel all nervous. I'm even picking at the big sore on face! Geesh, I make myself mad sometimes!