Whats up with people?

Question

I'm i my early 20's and have my close circle of friends, and such. I have a problem making good new friends. For a long as i know for years now, after i meet new people, eventually they tend to be passive aggressive towards me in some way out of nowhere. For Example. Whether it be they stop talking to me as much out of nowhere, insulting me in a subtle or slightly direct way, or not talking to me at all.

Im very good with meeting and interacting with people. I like to have fun and be there for people, even if i dont know them as much (male or female). I also just am myself and show people im laid back and easy going, with a sense of the seriousness depending on what were talking about or situation im in.

And sometimes i wont even meet people and they give me bad looks or wont respond too much to me when i try to make friendly small talk. I dress decently, i smell okay, im proper spoken, dont insult people, and try to have good conversation and have light fun with people. Im a healthy muscular guy, with a good heart. All the qualities of a person id think people would like to be around and try to keep around. i dont know what to think now.

Why do people end up throwing me away and/or not giving me a chance? why do people do this to me?

Answer 1

Maybe you intimidate them. Seems a lot of people now-a-day like being the "best" so if you are better at something or better looking then them they move on to someone who makes them feel better about themselves. (The ol' hot chick with a fat ugly friend thing)

Maybe you are interacting with the wrong people.

Maybe you are clingy and don't know it.

Whatever it is I wouldn't worry about it too much. Most likely you are too good for them anyway --> Maybe you are egotistical ;)

Answer 2

I am always open to meeting new people and making new friends.  But I have found that most people aren't as open or looking for the same thing.  People are often comfortable with their group of friends and really aren't interested in making the effort to get to know me or hang out with me.  Building new friendships takes work and so people just don't bother.  I often give up because I don't want to be the only one making the effort.  

Value your close friends and when the rare new friend comes along, you'll value them too.  

Answer 3

Maybe you're just hanging around the wrong kind of people. Don't worry, eventually you'll steer in the right direction and find people just like you. You're not in any particular kind of rush, are you? Quality takes time.