I have decided to leave a relationship of five years after observing, what I consider, excessive intimacy between my partner and his half sister. She recently endured a very tragic life event, and as a result, my partner started spending quite a bit of time with her and the rest of their blended families, which is new behavior since he's been with me, but totally understandable. Anyway, tragedy striken sis began texting him "I love you" messages and then just recently came to our home for a first time visit.
She was dressed in skin tight pants and a tight tank (he had shared with me that she supposedly had a boob job, which was clearly confirmed at the time of her visit). I walked in the door and saw my partner standing over her with his hand on her mid thigh. He then slid has hand down her thigh and off her knee. Later they sat closely on the couch, talking quietly to one another. As she prepared to leave, he wrapped his arms around her and they snuggle hugged, like body enmeshment, as they walked toward her car.
Do I sound jealous? Yes, but even his other full sister who was visiting as well seemed nervous and finally had to ask him if he would hug her too.
The outpouring between these two threw me over the edge. My partner has never, in my memory, been so intimately affectionate with me.
I had met her once before when we first got together, and upon greeting each other, they did such a full body embrace, I later told him that I thought she was an ex and not his sis. Alas, they are blood related, which makes this even worse.
Since I am an only child, and know nothing about normal sibling relationships except for what I have observed in my friend's families and at the movies, what do you read from my story? Same thing, somthing differerent? Please share...and thanks.
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