Whats wrong with interracial relationships? ?

Question

so i'm white and have been dating a black guy for 9months now, and my parents were hinting around it but didn't really have a clue. Now that there hearing stuff they threaten to sell my truck.and blocking his number. But I'm not about to give up on him just because of how they was raised.

Answer 1

I have to wonder if you are dating "a black guy" or Tom or Joe. I have known entirely too many "statement babies" who were created to say "I'm not prejudiced" without regard to the difficulties of raising children in our complicated world. Life's tough for everybody, regardless of your race, religion or creed. It's even tougher without two dedicated parents. Statement babies are all too often raised by political nitwits - or grandparents or the foster care system - instead of two dedicated parents.

Answer 2

You're obviously under age and still living with your parents. Sorry - you have to do as they say until you are 18. Maybe he's over age while you're under age and thats the part they dont like? Maybe they've heard something else about him that you wouldn't listen to like he has a criminal record or something? Parents usually do know better...granted some are racists, but I've know black parents flipping out when theyr sons/daughters bring home a white mate. Sometimes its race while sometimes its not. Chill out until you're sure but even then if you're living on their dime, theres not a damned thing you can do about it.

Answer 3

their is nothing wrong with interracial relationships but, you going to have to realize that parents opinions about interracial relationships are most likely are not going to change because, due how they were raise or other factors. also, you can not help who are you attracted to or who you fall in love with. and if you going to let your parents opinions about interracial relationship make you second guess your relationship with your current boyfriend then, you minus well just leave your boyfriend now.

because, people out there in the real world would not be any kinder. they would talk about you and make comments in your face or behind your back about your relationship.

so just in other words, just do what make you feel happy and if he make you happy then be with him, don't care what people say.

also just explain to parents how you feel and hopefully they would understand eventually.

good luck:)