Whats wrong with me? Im going insane?

Question

Ok so I am Megan im 15 years old and I have alot of good friends and a boyfriend. But lately I have been feeling really bad. I normally have high self esteem but lately I have been feeling ugly. I looked in the mirror I saw a ugly fat girl. I stood there and sobbed my eyes out.

I dont have PMS or anything but the littlest things make me cry. For example if someone says I cant have something I want to cry. Normally I'll just get over it and not cry but not anymore.

And I have been having a horrible headache. It never goes away

My parents and my friends dont know how im feeling.

I put this in this section because I want a mom or dads opinoin

Answer 1

sounds like depression, i would talk to a counselor ....or could be severe stress. if left un treated it can and most likely get worse

Answer 2

you def. go see a counselor. thers nothing wrong with seeing one so then you can talk about whatever is going threw your mind and also have a good cry or two. also, i your sessions you can fgure out if its your hormones or your really stressed or your depressed. either way they can help you set up a plan so that you can learn to deal with no or work on feeling up beat and good about yourself.

Answer 3

Ah age 15. What a terrible but great age. It could definitely be hormones. You probably have gone through puberty already, but that doesn't mean your done developing into a woman. It's a painful, confusing process, but it does end soon. If it doesn't end, you at least get used to it so it isn't so bad.

However, it could also be something like depression. If you're REALLY worried, you should talk to someone. Especially if you ever have thoughts of suicide or hurting yourself in any way. But, if not, then yes, its just a terrible part of growing up.

Don't assume that no one knows how you're feeling. I was the same way, but in front of my friends I was fearless and never ever showed any sign of pain, weakness, or sadness. When I was alone, though, I let it all out. Maybe some of your friends are just like me, and just don't want anyone to know how they're feeling.

For the head aches, try medicine. If that doesn't work, you should see a doctor, because it could be something serious. My friend had a constant headache, and it turned out something was wrong with her brain and she needed all this stuff done and had to have nose surgery. I'm sure your problem isn't that intense, but you never know what it could be unless you talk to a professional.

Answer 4

talk to a counselor and no one will hve to know. is there something going on in your life that is stressing you out? or you could be suffering from depression. hope you get through this

Answer 5

the best advice i can give,look into the mirror and say that u are beautiful,do this everytime u wake up in the morning...it helps relax the mind and body...Take warm baths and put a warm wet cloth over ur head and atleast clear ur mind.try not to think of anything,this will be soothing...try to atleast ask ur mom if u can go get a pedicure and manicure.this will help u smile a little or alot...try to do things that u think will make u happy.i know getting my nails done makes me happy.this is normal.but u have to atleast smile sometimes..even if u dont feel like it,smile...depression or whatever will wear off.just trick ur mind into being happy..

Answer 6

maybe you need to go and talk with a counselor..did something happen that you need to talk? You are really at the age where your hormones are goofy and you will get mixed emotions all the time, this is a very hard age and there is nothing wrong with going to a counselor to just let everything out and have a good cry--i saw counselors when i was in my teen years and i am in my 20s now and it really did help me...good luck to you

Answer 7

it's normal. you're growing up, your whole body is changing, plust the hormones in your body are causing all these emotions. you should talk to somebody about it, your mother, close friend maybe. but seems to me this is nothing more than the changes your body and mind are going through at this age.

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Answer 8

Your life is stressing you out and then with all that going on your going into depression. You should go to a therapist/counculor and go get checked out....

Answer 9

I am a mom of 4 kids,Megan, you're growing up and your hormones are changing,( for the good),and as far as crying all the time, you're wearing your heart on your sleeve(so da speak), someone could say to you: Good morning Megan,and you'll cry, or good bye Megan, and you'll cry, its just part of growing up, and as  you not liking what you see in the mirror, God made you pretty girl, do you know that? God doesn't make junk! You are very much worth while, God made you perfect, there is nothing wrong with you, and for your headaches,take 2 tylenols, and that part of you will be fine, baby girl get your self-esteem back, you are one of a kind, God made you that way, on purpose, He's got plans for you & your life, Turn everything   that is bothering you at this very moment over  to God,He'll help you to see that there is nothing wrong with you, and I doubt baby girl that you are a ugly fat girl,you really need to believe in yourself again, and believe in God, ask megan for God to help you, He will, He loves you period! You're one of His children, He doesn't want to you to continue to feel about yourself like you are now, YOU ARE A VERY GIRL, AND YOURE JUST GROWING UP!And that's the way it should be, AND NO YOU ARE NOT GOING INSANE!I know you don't want to hear this but baby girl, YOURE JUST GROWING UP THESE FEELINGS WILL PASS!God bless you!