Whats wrong with me what am i thinking?

Question

ok so my old ex girlfriends who has a kid and a boyfriends it trying to back with me and as much as i like her i don't want to break up a baby's parents. my previous girlfriend just told me last night she might be pregnant and i know she isn't the one for me... i feel so broke i have a good job and never felt like this before but all of a sudden i want to get my ged and start going to collage but i just cant afford it and when i think of getting my ged i start hyperventilating and feel like i want to cry.. i just cant afford everything i want to do and its mainly bills i spend money on but my job is unreliable but i love it. i don't know what I'm thinking or what to do, I AM DRIVING MYSELF CRAZY ATM, i cant think straight...

Answer 1

Darl, this is a BIG thing, really if she wants to be with you still will leave her partner that she has the kid to straight away, because thats not only hurting him eventully it will hurt the kid aswell, so if she isnt happy she will leave him, unless she is scared to be alone then she will stay with him.... Dont stress to much about your ex wait untill you see the preg test and then go from there....

good luck, and i wish you all the best

xoxoxox

Answer 2

aww! ur just overwhelmed with all kinds of stuff happeneing all at once. u need to step back take a deep breath and then approach the issues again. if the ex g/f who has a kid is still with someone just stay out of that like u were saying. that will be more trouble than its worth for the time being. if she and her b/f break up...give it 2 weeks and if she hasnt talked to him or they havent tried to get back together, then try it out. BUT make sure that ur other gf isnt prego first. otherwise that woud cause some issues too. so basically u need to just forget about the old gf cuz i think ur just tryin to get away from drama with the other gf and its just gunna give u a headache. then find out if ur gf now is prgnent. if she is u should help her out. and to help her out u should get ur ged so u can supprt a child. anyways good luck and dont worry-things will be ok!! =) u can look up shcoloriships and govt grants too online and aply for them to help pay for school too!