Whats wrong with my girlfriend?

Question

Shes lying on the settee in a dirty nightee, and has no make up on, and pregnant at 18 weeks and i said to her "you look beautiful" and the response i got was" you bein funny? im here in a dirty nighty, double chin, no make up and i havent done me hair, are you being funny you w!@#$%r??!!! Then i told her she was looking naturally beautiful, and she told me to F off and turned Super Trooper by Abba up really high! What did i do wrong? Now your all going to say hormones but shes neen like this for the last 5 years!

Answer 1

haha i had many lazy days like that when i was preg! and why does she need to wear make up if shes having a laz day! Shes pregnant! give her a little love and attention.........she is doing all the hard work!

Answer 2

Shes a slob with no class... sorry dont mean to be rude but thats unacceptable and gross...Just coz ur pregnant doesnt give u the excuse to be like that.As for the last 5 yrs ...wot were u thinking?!

Answer 3

I know enough guys to know that you're probably exagerating a bit here... She's probably just having a lazy day which everyone's entitled to... especially pregnant women! Go make her a cup of tea of something, that'll make her feel better. lol. There's nothing wrong with your girlfriend :)

Answer 4

You mean wife, surely. Edit: Believe it or not, I was joking.

Answer 5

,you sure are going to get the negative response from her as she feels that she can't see the natural beauty in a pregnant woman, only how she feels some time they go off for no reason, have you got any mother and child book, or find a book that explains how the woman feels, keep telling her how you feel and she might get to say thanks honey you say the nicest things, but for now show her some understanding as she can feel that you wont love her body changes good luck

Answer 6

I AM THE PREGNANT 'OTHER HALF'

Does anyone on this site have a sense of humour??

I may be in my nighty still, but I am not dirty, I think we were joking.

I'd love to know how many times know it all 'Jade' has been pregnant??

I am not a slob, but I get up with the kids at 6am everyday and work and provide for my family until I go to bed at 11pm. I am not complaining, I love my role, but even mums are entitled to a day off, especially when they are 19 weeks pregnant!

Right now, we are saving for a house and I don't want to spend my money on maternity wear - since I am not going out yet today, wearing a nighty is comfortable and allows my swollen belly room.

As for watching TV whilst slouching around on the settee, I guess you guys have never done that before - indeed that is what my other half is doing now! I guess I should be on the go 24/7, despite having swollen ankles, aching b***s and back, terrible indigestion.

What surprises me most about this question is you all assume what he put I said in converstaion is true! How quick you are to judge someone just because someone else made a bad joke. I didn't swear at all, he walked in and said 'you look beautiful' but he WAS being funny haha. I replied 'are you kidding me, is that a joke'. I don't feel beautiful, I feel a whale. I am not hostile about it (I think someone on here called me a 'bi***' how hostile is that??) I just don't get treated any differently by him - he never admires my swollen tummy, never pats it or says I look 'glowing', never asks how I feel, even when the other day for example I doubled up in pain from lady cramps. I don't expect constant attention, but when I am carrying his baby, I do hope for a little special treatment.

Also to all you ladies who answered, do you all agree with his insinuation that it takes make up and spending an hour on your hair is thge only way to be considered beautiful?? I really expected more support from the ladies - I think 'Bubbly Blonde' was nice, that is it. Being pregnant isn't an easy ride, though well worth it in the end. I don't 'milk it' like my sister in law does, but I maybe should. She has given up her job and doesn't lift a finger, leaving it all for her other half, despite being perfectly capable. I have continued to carry on as usual.

Oh well, think what you will, I guess, it just saddens me so many people, especially girls, are so quick to put me down. You are probably only about 12, so you'll learn little girls.

I'll at least enjoy ten points out of this.

Answer 7

Hiya huney, i am so sorry to say this but if your g/f has been like this for 5 years then i think your question should be "what is wrong with me!"  for putting up with her.  I know my man wouldnt tolerate it from me and you know what a good woman wouldnt expect it to be tolerated either!! Good luck and be happy

Answer 8

Of course she is a b****, she likes Abba.

Answer 9

maybe she is just a miserable ****

get real stingray this is the 21st century

Answer 10

Well if she was like this prior to pregnancy then I'm surprised you're even on here asking this when it's obvious that's just her... Maybe you should have thought twice before creating with her if you don't like her attitude.