Whats you opinion for my problem?

Question

I wanted to know what everyones opinion is towards my situation. I live with my parents and me and my parents have a very close relationship.

Well my story is that i got together with a 18yr old girl im 23yr and we have a 5mo baby. We curently are living with my parents me and my parents have a close relationship . Well latly my Gf has been trowing a fit for every little thing she can find she will say your mom is this and she dose this .Then if she sees me talking to my parents she gets jelous and starts telling me that shes going to go with sonso and lots more. If my sisters are home she tells me look your lazy sister is just sitting and not doing anything and braging about everything. She is so jelous that if i try to go to the store to by the baby milk or something he needs she thinks im going to go see someone else ..

she also keeps bringing up my past and trowing it in my face . Is something seriously wrong with this girl or what? What kinda mother ggets jelous if i try to carry my own baby she will tell me hug me now put the baby down or if i carry him she will push me away..

is it really worth satying with a person you love if she is trying to break the bond between your parents and will make you live unhappy and miserable with her ? Whats the best suggestion?

Answer 1

Deal. She has stayed with your rent's(rent free  I assume),and this is her busting out of her cage.

Post Traumatic Stress.

Love the why me angle-but you are the one,you are the stress.

She has to live with strangers,you get family.

Nice try,but I side with her.

Answer 2

Well, this is children having children.  Before you start a family, you're supposed to be able to support a family.  You can't.  Your wife ( by the way, your wife is the woman who's supposed to have your children) is supposed to be your primary relationship.  "...til death..." and all that.

So, now we have your parents providing for their child and providing for his child all at once.  YOu say, "... a person you love..." when clearly, your love for your parents outweighs your love and concern for her.

She needs to move on and find a man, not a boy.

Answer 3

Sounds like she has some serious personal issues. There is nothing you can do to help her with her issues if she doesn't see that she needs help. Therapy usually helps with these sorts of issues. There is no reason anyone should want to come between you and your family. I would suggest she seeks help. She may never be the person you want her to be. But now there is a child involved, so try to work it out if your heart is in it.

Answer 4

Wow, man, that's rough. It sounds like she has some real insecurity issues and she is still pretty young. Also could be postpartum depression. Not sure how to handle that. The only thing you can really do is talk to her directly about it, which I'm sure you have thought of and/or tried and ended up in a fight, right? But maybe if you are direct and to the point. Just tell her that your relationship with her is on the line and you don't want to lose what you have with her. Being in your parents' house also puts a lot of pressure on everyone involved.

Answer 5

There's a lot going on that needs to be dealt with but first and foremost, it's a very reasonable desire to live with your g/f and baby separate from your family and create your own habits and lifestyle.

I wonder how much of the problem this would solve.

But if finances don't allow you to move out, time to deal with this baby mama since you have a little one you're responsible for for the rest of its life. (the money may end at 18 but guiding that baby up through life never really ends.)