Whats you point of view on this situation?

Question

do you think that a husband or wife has a right to take off their wedding ring if they are mad at their spouse? do you think that it is a sign that the spouse is finished with the relationship?

Answer 1

Yeah if you're 16. Sounds pretty juvenile. Husbands and wives fight. It's inevitable. It doesn't mean you can "unmarry" every time you don't get your way. If he's taking it off and leaving it off its just an excuse to not wear it. Tell him to grow up.

Answer 2

I think they have to right to wear it or not.. I think it is really silly, but I guess it makes a statement...

I don't think it is a sign.. they are just frustrated and in the moment..people do stupid stuff when they are mad and don't think...  

Answer 3

No, that´s a very immature way to deal with fights. And if someone is done with the relationship the best and easy way to let the other know it´s over is by simply telling them, don´t you think?

Such things like: I wonder what he or she thinks... is a sign of lack of communication and trust.

A husband and wife should never be wondering what the other thinks or feels. When this happens, problems happen.

Answer 4

I think its a sign that the other person is just really angry and they've found something that pushes your button. It doesn't make you less married unless the person acts on it.  

Answer 5

It sounds a little childish.  The spouse really knows that this gets on the other spouse's nerves so they keep on doing it.  The best thing to do is to ignore it. Or you can say, I'm taking my ring off too.  In that way we are still equal and married.  Also anything can be a sign of anything.

Answer 6

everybody get angry and mad - and we all do silly things maybe just to prove a point.

Give the situation time to cool off

goodluck xxxx

Answer 7

I hear stories of this often. I have seen a friend of mine do this a few years ago. They were fighting she threw her ring at him. I think it's utterly immature and childish. I personally would not do it to try to get my way in a fight i would not use the threat of divorce to get my way. I don't think a wife or hubby has a right to use that ring as a control tool. It should not ever be used during or after a  fight to gain control of the other persons emotions.  people do often act retarded when angry this is one i would have a MAJOR issue with if my hubby did it.

Answer 8

It's immature is what it is.  A ring is an outward symbol of marriage.  Taking it off doesn't make one any less married.  If they are trying to tell their spouse by doing that they are going to act unmarried, they are wrong and immature.  I think it is an effort to manipulate.

Answer 9

I think people say and do stupid things when they're mad. Talk to them about it when they're calm...I bet they didn't mean anything by it

Answer 10

I agree with the first person on this one. However, if the person went and pawned his/her wedding ring in a fit of rage that'd be a whole other ballgame.