Whay kind of topics to talk about with a girl in a night club after making the right first move ?

Question

You made a suucefful entry and now you have her ears - what to say to keep her interested ? What not to say ? I hate being manipulative and being yourself doesn't seem challenging enough - people wear make up and lie 30%. I don't do this any ideas ?

Answer 1

Find a common interest. Develop some sort of networking plan. Leave you both an escape route. Plan for another day.

Answer 2

It depends on what your after.  If you're interested in the girl as a possible long term friend (or more) then talk about 'them'.  Where did you go to school, where were you raised, what kind of work do you do, do you like it, etc etc.

If your after a one nighter, I have no skills in that catagory.  Sorry.

Answer 3

i would say keep it in the moment. ask her who she is there with. is she having fun. is she there often. what her drink is. what music she likes. what made her come out tonight. if she is likin the atmosphere of the night so far. take it from there. and dont approach her like a sleaze ball " so what you doing good lookin" that kind of line is so not cool u may actually put yourself in her book of laughs for the night with her girls on the ride home. u dont want that.

Answer 4

tlk about music, places u want to go in the world, what u plan to do for ur future, ask her what she wants to do for her future, what she does for her job, if she likes her job....

Answer 5

more important than what you say is how you say it.

Answer 6

SOMETHING THATS NOT STUPID AS h**l...furthermore, if you need to ask this question...don't approach anybody!