When I am talking to someone, they feel uncomfortable with my eye contact.I see them touching their nouse.....

Question

When I see them bejing uncomfortable, I feel so stressed and confused. This happened with everyone except my wife and my kids.

This trouble wasn't for me before I got the glasses.I figured out that when I take my glasses out, the person's face looks to mee little blury so I do not have eye contact problem. What is the reason this is happening to me? How I can I be like before? Do I have to share this concerne with my eye doctor?

Answer 1

you're an energy vampire!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Do you have one eye that might wander? Or do you have a freckle or a mole that might look like a booger?  I have a cousin that has a freckle at the edge of her nostril that does look like booger.  Ask your wife or someone you know well if they notice anything when you make eye contact.

Answer 3

could be that since you can see better now, you are looking too intently at thier faces or you are perhaps just noticing this since you can see better.  Try taking about a half step back too.  Some people don't like thier space invaded and some people invade without realizing they are doing it.  I worked with a  woman who practically climbed up my front when she wanted to talk and I would spend the whole conversation backing up, and her stepping forward.

Answer 4

Any time eye contact is held for too long people get uncomfortable.  Try looking away sometimes and taking a step back, like someone else said.During normal conversations, eye contact is frequently broken.  Lovers and parents lecturing kids maintain intense eye contact. hehe