When I get drunk, I act really, really S****y?

Question

I like to drink but even with just a little bit in my system, I start acting really flirty and out of control. And when I get past the tipsy phase, I always get up every guy I meet and ask them if they want to have s*x with me.

I have never done anything while I was drunk because I always had friends to pull me away, or good guy friends that know that I am like that, but how can I stop this behavior? It's not like I'll never drink again.

Answer 1

Why don't you just try to loosen up without alcohol? I know you say you will still drink - but if you consciously know what it will do to you, why? Well, if you aren't going to stop drinking, maybe you should drink less.

Answer 2

I think we should go out for a drink or two and talk about it......

Answer 3

yea alot of girls act like that

Answer 4

You may have a deep desire to be sexual and you are repressing this in your everyday life so when you have a drink and your defences are down this side of you surfaces.

Maybe explore pleasing yourself when your not drunk if you feel this could get you into trouble, its very difficult but its better to find the cause than do something you regret.

Answer 5

YA MIGHT END UP ON YOUTUBE

Answer 6

i get a little wild with alcohol so i stay away from it..cuzz i don't want to end up pregnant and not know who my baby daddy is.

Answer 7

Just think of the consequences if you actually do go through with it.

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Answer 8

Lowered inhibitions...getting guys hooked-up for 8,000 years and counting.

Answer 9

Nothing wrong with this behavior at all.

Answer 10

That isnt a s**t at all that's an attention w***e. Watch out for the teeny prego. Just ask Juno.

Answer 11

people often act in this way when they have a low self esteem and that by offering s*x will make them feel loved.A good start is to learn to love yourself and maybe this may stop happening

Answer 12

I act like this too, well i don't go as far as asking for s*x.  Basically i'll make out with every person in sight.  I wouldn't worry about it too much, i think alot of girls act like this (especially teenage girls).  Just always make sure you're friends are there to look out for you.

Answer 13

I think you might use drinking as an excuse to act that way.  If you are normally reserved but don't really want to be, you might allow yourself, even if you don't think of it that way, to act S****y when you drink.  Or, maybe liquid courage just makes you brave enough to hit on the people you normally wouldn't...

Answer 14

gee i thought i was the only one who wanted s*x after a few

Answer 15

Hahaha you sound like the girls that are at my high school

Every d**n girl at high school parties are like that and its funny.

I wouldn't worry about it, just try to restrain yourself

Answer 16

Just be careful of how much you drink and keep trustworthy friends around to pull you away. Cause you don't want to be raped or anything.

Answer 17

i would say that you have some underlying self esteem issues...that a lot of girls/women have.

alcohol lowers your inhibitions and makes you do things you normally wouldn't do.

sounds to me like you are an all or nothing drinker. booze+random s*x with random guys is not a good combination for a number of obvious reasons.

my advice to you is to stop drinking for a while. if you feel that you just can't do that then you need professional help b/c the alcohol is controlling you.

good luck :-)

Answer 18

happens to me too so dont worry