When I was 14 I had this dream, do you know what it means?

Question

I'm outside walking on the sidewalk in some neighborhood and I need to make a call. So I ask this guy who looks like William Hung to use his cell phone. It's a kind of crappy phone, but when I give it back it's alll nice and stuff. He gets mad though! I just walk away. Later me and my family are celebrated 4th of July. The room is all white except a big screen TV and we're like watching some 4th of July thing and sitting on towels. I decided to leave and go to bed (except the comforter was red like my really old one). Then that guy comes! And he's coming to rape me because I changed his phone! But I can't move so I just start crying as he comes onto my bed. Then I woke up.

Answer 1

To dream that you have been raped, suggests a sadistic expression of sexual desire.  You may be expressing an unconscious desire to be violated, conquered, or forced into forbidden territory. Some women have a desire to be sexually overpowered, but not hurt. It also indicates vengeful feelings toward the opposite s*x. Alternatively, it suggests that you are feeling violated in some way. Something or someone is jeopardizing your self-esteem and emotional well-being. You feel that someone or something is being forced upon you. Dreams of rape are also common for those who were actually raped in their waking life.

Answer 2

the phone thing could be that you want nicer things than you have... maybe you want them for ages and never get them, or maybe you get them and it's nothing special anymore.. like the novelty wore off..... The man could represent that people take away your fun.. maybe you hoped to do better more exciting things... and someone canceled or hurt you...... and now you're stuck....

Answer 3

To dream that you are having a telephone conversation with a person signifies that you need to sort some things out with that person.

If You dream of somebody who is angry, then it is often brought over into your waking life. If you see some similarities between the person in your dream and you, then you could be angry at aspects of this other person that you also possess.

If you later are in a completely white room then that means that you are, or will be having pure/ new outlook on life, that is usually positive. As an exception to this, eastern cultures see white ascociated with death, and mourning (are you of eastern decent, or is the other guy?).

The TV show (if any) could be a representation of the general thoughts you had in the period of time you had the dream. I am not sure what the significance of the fourth of July is, but I know that four can denote physical limitations in labour or it can also denote materialistic belongings.

(I think this may be an important part of your dream) To see your own bed in your dream means your intimate self, and discovery of your sexuality, and it makes sense that a blanket symbolizes comfort, and protection. Red means a strong passion, raw energy, and often has deep emotional connotations. Rape can either signify strong sexual repression or a feeling of being violated in a way.

Since I do not know anything about your life, I can only make a few guesses to how all of this relates to you. You may have to interpret it yourself according to what happened in your life when you were 14. This does have to do a lot with you sexuality though, and this does not surprise me, because you were 14 at the time you had this dream.

Oh, and I just googled july in relation to dream interpretation, and it has to do with gloomy outlooks followed by unexpected pleasure, and good fortune.

I am really interested in how you interpret this. What events in your life may have sparked this dream? Anyway, I hope this helped, and good luck figuring the rest out.

Answer 4

maybe you are changing and other people dont like it?

but dreams dont always have to have a meaning.  often dreams are just your mind sort of thinking about what happened that day. like one time i was talking about turtles and my friend had a dream that night about turtles.

Answer 5

unresolved issues possibly...you need to search deeper as to what each character means and represents...also you are safe with your family, but still he is able to come through...thus unresolved issues, allow yourself to be forgiven. Love yourself!

Answer 6

have you ever been harrassed , this sounds like that .