When I was in a relationship,I avoided fights w/my gfriend because I was terrified of having fights.Is that

Question

normal? I admit I am shy and have some social anxiety. I'm single and in my 30's.

Answer 1

i think the best answer you'll find is what  "spam free" just said in answer # 1.

Answer 2

It may be normal for you, the real question .... is it healthy?

There's nothing wrong with avoiding or not allowing a full scale war to occur.  But if you feel strongly about something, and won't  state your case, and defend your position, (because of fear or insecurity), that will be  a problem in a relationship long term.

Luck

Answer 3

what you need to think about is what you don't like about fights.. it should never get past arguing... i started a group called heretovent on yahoo groups check it out and join so I can see how ur doing with dealing with this