When a baby dies, do you send flowers?

Question

My 4 month old grandson died, and I was so unsure as to, if I should send a flower arrangement. Everyone is talking about small arrangement, I would like to send something, just not sure what you can send besides flowers. I was leaning more to a teddy bear or something with him name. I looked on line for flowers ave didn't see anything for a baby.

Answer 1

First of all,I am from the R/S forum and am very sorry to hear of your loss...

Personally,I like your idea of the teddy bear or perhaps some other token,that he seemed fond of...Speaking humanly,I have never liked the idea of associating flowers,with death...Just my opinion,not necessarily in line with proper etiquette..I think it should be of a personal and emotionally based choice,rather than what is considered to be protocol..

((((Renee and Family)))).

Answer 2

The teddy bear and name sounds precious

Answer 3

send flowers and love  

Answer 4

Flowers and a teddy bear sound like a sweet. loving thought.  We go to a butterfly release every year for our grandson.

Answer 5

The Teddy Bear sounds sweet, but your loving support will matter the most at this time. God bless you all.

Answer 6

You could always write a long heart-felt letter stating how sad you are and how much you love and support the parents.  Somehow, sending a teddy-bear seems very sad, as the parents will have to find something to do with it - every time they see it they will be reminded of this very sad thing.   If you live nearby,  take them out to dinner or bring a cooked dinner over and just be there for them.  If you're far away - now would be a good time to visit.  

I'm so sorry about the little guy, my prayers are with you.  

Answer 7

A teddy bear should be fine. As long as it isn't anything that is over power(ing) for a small baby.

Answer 8

My friends lost a two year old child recently to a tragic accident. It was the most difficult funeral ever. I cannot express my sorrow for your family's loss.

Jacob's Grandparents had a lovely floral arrangement present and a Teddy Bear in the casket for him. My husband and I purchased a memorial children's bible in Jacob's name thru their church. Our other friends planted a tree in Jacob's name at the cemetery.

I wish you all the best - I hope this helps.

Answer 9

Something personalised is more precious, or something significant to a time that reminds you of him being happy. Could be that teddy bear you saw in  shop that you though he loved. To that bracelet that has his name on it.  

Answer 10

I looked on-line through FTD and they have a small arrangement that includes a teddy bear.  I think that would be very appropriate.  It's under "birthdays" but, of course the card can say whatever you'd like.

My deepest sympathy over the loss of your grandchild.  My best to you and the parents of the child...