My hunch is that this is normal, but it still feels awkward and so I wanted to get some support/normalization/advice.
When playing with my five year old daughter, I sometimes have an erection. I think its simply the way this silly body works --when my p***s is bumped, sat on, rubbed against, etc. (yes, with clothes on).
Do I have 'sexual thoughts' about her? No, I would never want to be sexual with her. However, the way guys are built, when erect, 'sexual feelings', etc. are present and I don't like have these feelings around her.
Once, while all three of us were snuggling in bed (me between my wife and daughter) I noticed I had an erection and it seemed like my wife had noticed too...so then I was insecure that she was worried and insecure that 'something was wrong with me'. Anyway, its all hard to explain and kind of awkward. Any thoughts or advice? I'm sure I must not be the only dad wondering about this stuff.
Thanks!
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