When a friends says to you AFTER you say,"I'd rather not go into that. It is very sad) cuz the friend is nosy?

Question

Then way later, "Now what happened to your husband"and i politely say, but stoically. "I do not re-live it anymore". (Basically I am done with my grieving and want to move on. I have talked about it with my family and have moved on). EXplaining keeps hurt alive.Should I dump this friend. It is annoying.

Answer 1

Before Dumping your friend, maybe you could explain to them how it hurts you to talk about this, and then if they don't respect that, I would drop them, because it would be obvious that they don't respect you.

Answer 2

Id make it clear one more time and then yeah, id give the relationshsip a long rest.  you coud say "Look, some things I dont want to re-live or talk about.  Ever" and if she persists, run the other way.  How irritating.  And in-sensative.  If she had half a brain she wouuld realize what you are saying to her.