When a person meet someone for the first time....?

Question

and they have s*x(please no preaching here, everybody have needs and feeling, not just one side don't always look at it from a man point)anyway what if they find out they have a lot in common but something is just missing or she's not into him sexually but enjoy his company and he feel the same way but he just cant leave (I think he have a girl) how and why are we scared about really getting to know each other he ask about my future plans I asked about his out of politeness so why do it feel like it want to go somewhere but it's not going no where and please no sarcastic answers.

Answer 1

Go as far as you can with no strings attached. No promises and no demands. Say bye with a smile when you cannot go further.

Answer 2

The relationship between the two sounds as confusing as you explained it.  I'm not sure what you are asking.  It seems like you both maybe are co-dependent, needing to be with someone.  A healthy relationship requires two healthy individuals.

Answer 3

look, i'm guessing  here. and i don't mean this to be a lecture, so forgive me if it sounds like that.

Traditionally, people got to know each other, discovered they had things in common, were together more, and eventually got to s*x ( with or without marraige.)

you started with s*x, then discovered you had things in common, but he is in what sounds like a committed relationship.   for all i know , he is married.

it just seems hard to grow a deep relationship when you start with s*x. I don't know why.

Maybe it is because the order for intimacy is mixed up, so emotionally, growth of the relationship is difficult.

Answer 4

UH FU** ME

Answer 5

well if all fails in the relationship ther's always friendship, i know thats lame but it's the best way to get to know someone with no strings attached. If u do want a relationship it could still work out just hang out with him when u can, even if he has a girl, people grow on u,sexually and relationship wise. I say wait it out and u might benifit.... i had a similar "relationship" before now we're married with 3 kids, 9 yrs later!

Answer 6

Relationships have many facets. One of the facets is sexual attraction. If there is no sexual attraction, or the s*x is just plain awful then it's best to be just friends.