When a virgo pushes you away, is it better to force it or wait when he find excuses?

Question

He's a virgo, I'm a cap, We've been going out for many months now.. And last night we were suppose to do something that would make us closer together but, he told me I wasn't serious, and he got insecure and he said he was gonna leave, when he told me the night before that we were in love and that we would be together forever.

I know that he love me, and he know i do too, and, I also know that he's acting this way because he's scared that I will leave him. After he gave me the silent threatment, He asked me to leave him alone. Which I didn't.

Today I told him that I would go where he was to prove him that I do love him, and he asked why and ended up giving me a phony excuse.

Should I force it down his throat, make him worried, or tell him something like "Ok well, if you don't wanna see me, I guess it means you don't love me" just to make him react.

What's the best way to answer to a virgo in this situation?

Thanks

Answer 1

that doesn't really sound like Virgo behavior. He must have a moon or asc in a water sign. A little bit moody!

Men need time to themselves to work out their issues. Go hang out with your gal friends for a few days. I am sure he'll come around.

Answer 2

give him time to do his thing or whatever....you can have somewhat separate lives and still be together (and it not matter)...

Answer 3

omg. either way. my virgo is a freakin az z hole. virgos are supossed to care about their luved ones and all that good stuff. I say dnt force it down his throat, he will either come around or go fly off a cliff. i'm a cancer and my virgo was everything i ever wanted until he started fu kin wit an aquarius. she fu ked up his car everytime she got mad at him and he tried to run back to me. everytime! they make up excuses cuz they cant make up their mind. they know they want to make sure home is okay, but when it comes to love, they say they love you but they love money more. you better off with a dam puppy!

Answer 4

girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!! rather than forcin for somethin in a relation always.. makes your loved ones far from u.. it would be really nice for you to wait... if he really loves you..than y you worried?????

Answer 5

If a Virgo pushes you away don't want to talk to you for a while it is better don't force him to talk with you you will even push him even more away. Let him for a while he'll come back to you and talk with you