When a young girl has a child?

Question

What are the best ways of lookin at that?

Answer 1

i think that one of the positives are that the parents wont be old when the child is 18 the parents will only be 30  

Answer 2

People don't really see it as "bad", as much as they see it as being "sad".  Sad that a child has to grow up before their time and become a responsible adult when they really have no experience being one.  They have to give up being irresponsible children give up hanging out with their friends, give up partying, give up enjoying their childhood and become responsible parents.

Answer 3

if the young girl is responsible she might have an easier time understand the emotional needs of the change because of the small age gap.

Answer 4

the cops need to talk to the daddy first

Answer 5

Sometimes you just have to look at the new person that has come to life and feel joy and hopefully look at the new mother and feel pride in the new person she is becoming.

Answer 6

IF A YOUNG GIRL AS A BABY THEN THEY GOT A HANDFULL

BECAUSE THEY ARE STILL CONSIDER A CHILD UNIL AT LEAST THEIR LATER TEENS EVEN UP TO 18. BECAUSE YOU GOT TO THINK ALL THE TRUOBLE THE GIRL GOING THROUGH. GETTING UP EARLY FEEDING THE BABY SEVERAL TIMES THEN DRESSING IT. CHANGING IT THEN HAVE TO HOPE THE MOTHER WILL WATCH IT WHILE GOING TO SCHOOL. THEN COMING HOME AND DOING IT ALL OVER AGAIN. EVEN IF SHE GETS HOME SCHOOL. OR DON'T GO TO SCHOOL AT ALL. THERE A 50/50 CHANCE THE DAD GOING WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT. ALSO GOT TO THINK IF THE BABY GOING HAVE BIRTH DEFECTS TOO!

Answer 7

i don't know what you are asking really, be more specific like how old is this girl and  do you mean how do you handle that?

Answer 8

huh?

Answer 9

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Answer 10

I don't understand what you're asking.

Answer 11

maybe the reason you dont see it as a bad thing is because you are not with the child 24/7 and totally responsible. not sure what you could say to others to help convince them. there really isnt many good things for the girl unless she finds power to finish school and go on to college, then it becomes a happy ending but until that point its all unsure.

to the 13 year old above, work to finish school so that you can find a good job that your proud of. there are programs now that high school students can start college while attending high school.

good luck to everyone:)

Answer 12

the young girl shouldn't be having a child but unfortunately it happens WAY too often. Hopefully she has the support she needs and the father is properly prosecuted

Answer 13

theres nothing good about it

Answer 14

it is not a good situation to get into, but it is not to be looked at in disgust. everyone makes mistakes and not all mistakes are bad. people who are in that situation could use support from the community so outreach s the best possible solution

Answer 15

How is it a good thing? A young girl is supposed to be enjoying her childhood not saddled with the responsibility of caring for a child.

Don't get me wrong, I'm a mother and would always encourage people to have children but I can't see how a young girl can be responsible for a child when she is just a child herself.

Answer 16

think posite about it and everything is going to be good and maybe u will like the baby just saying u never know

Answer 17

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Answer 18

WHAT?

Answer 19

Thank you for standing up for us. I am 13 and pregnant, and it really is a bad thing. Due to family beliefs, I will be raising the child myself, while i attend an internet school. Pretty much I have flushed my social life down the toilet (everyone I see always calls me a s**t or w***e) and will most likely not finish high school, or possibly even junior high (i am going into grade 8) I have to earn the money to pay for my daughters food, and toys and diapers and stuff. My parents will give me $100 dollars a month, and I have to cover the rest. I have spent the whole summer so far working 10 hour days, to earn money. All in all, teen pregnancy is bad.  

Answer 20

How young are we talking about here?  20?  18?  16?  12?

I don't think it's a bad idea to have kids young, as long as you are married and finished with school (so your child will be provided for and will have a stable home).  However, most teenage pregnancies are unplanned and most teenage mothers are not yet done with school and in stable relationships.

I don't think the young mothers are "bad" -- if anything, I admire them for deciding to have the child and be responsible enough to care for it instead of having an abortion.  Any teenage mother will tell you that, although she loves her child, she is having a very difficult time trying to balance school, work, her social life, and her baby.  Many young single mothers have to live with their parents for a long time or have to be on government assistance.  Most would tell you that, while they wouldn't trade their baby for the world, they wish they had waited until they were done with school -- it would have made things much easier.

In answer to your question, the best way of looking at a very young girl with a child is this:  She may have made a mistake (or she was horribly taken advantage of), but it's no different than the mistake many teenagers are making.  She was one of the ones who go pregnant from it.  She's now being responsible and doing the best she can.  She deserves all the help she can get in order to finish high school and college so she will be able to provide for herself and her child.

Answer 21

I don't understand the question.

sorry.