The other day I saw a question about how to word an invitation to ask the guests to wear just black or white. Most responses said that it wasn't appropriate. The person asking just thought we were all too uptight. I just saw another question from someone that received an invite to a wedding where they were asked to only wear black. I was surprised with how many people thought it was perfectly normal.
I get that its couple's "special day", and sometimes they have unconventional dreams. However, I think it is quite rude to put the burden on the guests. Beyond deciding how formal the event is, you should not be dictating specific colors to your guests. It is an unnecessary burden to them. It isn't just a "request", the guests don't know how many people will listen and they risk looking like a jerk if they don't conform. What happened to inviting people as guests instead of decorations?
I was certainly not alone in thinking that this was wrong, but do that many people really consider this to be acceptable? How would you dress if you received an invite like this?
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