When did you and your bf/gf have your first fight?

Question

Me and my bf have been dating for nine months and we haven't fought yet, not even close. Im afraid that since we've gone this long our first fight is going to be about something huge like cheating or something. How far into your relationship was your first fight and was it a deal breaker?

Answer 1

it was bout a month into the relationship.. lol and of all things, it was over PETA. Didn't end the relationship, but it should've... woulda saved me a h**l of a lot of headaches later. (we broke up recently)

Answer 2

My last relationship was the first relationship I've been in.

We, unfortunately, started fighting about.. 3 Months into the relationship. We dated over a year, & Fought.. Pretty much everyday.

But everyone has to make mistakes. I've definitely learned from them ;)

Answer 3

My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. Our first fight was after about 5 or 6 months. We were in my bedroom and it was over something very stupid where apparently I offended him with my high knowledge of the human anatomy. Anyway, it was a pretty bad fight. Stupid, but bad. Eventually we talked it out. We still argue but we know how to fix things so far. We have a really great relationship.

Answer 4

Some people just dont fight it's normal and doesnt mean that your first fight will be HUGE!

My bf and I's first fight was over his ex girlfriend butting in and him not doing anything.

It was stupid and it brought us closer.

Answer 5

just wait... it will happen gradually and you will think about those days when you couldn't imagine what you would ever fight about. It took me and my ex boyfriend about 2 years to start fighting, and after that two more years till we broke up.

But maybe you guys are a perfect match and have great communication so you never know

Answer 6

my ex and i were weird as heck.  we had ALOT of disagreements.  but once we got married we didn't have any arguments for almost 4 years.  i think we were unusual in that regard.  but sweetie enjoy this time.  because sure you will have arguments.  and don't think the worse--cheating or something like that.  it may just be about leaving socks on the floor or some thing like that.  good luck

Answer 7

OK some people don't have full blown fights, but little arguments that put together = the full blown fight.

also as far as relationships go your is still young, both are still trying to act perfect for each other ( less then the month 1 but still a little). its when you spend tons of time like live together and hormones clash that little to big fights are created. but don't worry it an OK thing.

i got my very first bf at 18 (7 months ago) and we have not fought yet. although he is in Texas and I'm in Indiana. we don't talk to eat other but once a week or when ever he calls me.( i have a phone phobia)

Answer 8

Me and my wife havnt had anything major at all

Answer 9

if you havent fought its a good thing and when the first fight pops up you will know eachother so well that you'll be able to work it out dont worry

our first fight was about a year into it and it was about somethin stupid and we ended up laughin bout it l8r

it jus shows your right for eachother  

Answer 10

well i will tell you about my hubby since all my past relationships were nothing but fighting lol

but it was a good year or so before we had a fight...maybe 1 1/2 yrs. and it was obviously not a deal breaker since hes still my hubby. 11 years and counting...