When did you realize that your Spouse really does Love you?

Question

Even if it is a warped kind of love...

Answer 1

i don;t think i have ever felt that yet

Answer 2

When I realized that I had hurt his feelings with something that I said.  He never let anyone get close enough to hurt his feelings before.  I felt like a real horse's @$$.  He forgave me and I am working on watching my mouth in the future.

Answer 3

on my birthday a few years ago i got home from work  and there she stood with a 6 pack  the remote a large pizza and later i got some oral that's when i knew she loved me.

Answer 4

When she gave me an Engraved Set of Her Housekeys- unasked... That was a "Whoa..!"- moment...  :)

Answer 5

Honestly, the day she agreed to marry me and had our children

Answer 6

Yeah, but there's a point where it's like "so what?"

Answer 7

If you had questions about the extent of his love you shouldn't have married him.  But your insecurities may be unfounded and may drive him away.  No one wants to have to prove their feelings everyday.

Answer 8

After it was too late. I had already sabotaged our relationship, not once but twice! Anyway, looking back there were so many signs that he loved me and would have done ANYTHING for me. He really did give me the world.

Answer 9

When I wake up in the morning and see her lying next to me.

Answer 10

when he would rather hold me through the night then try to get into my pants! he just wasn't the typical guy when we met. he was interested in me and what i had to say. the s*x came later and it was fabulous because we had connected as friends first.

Answer 11

when he chooses me over  Madden08

Answer 12

we had pretty bad times in the very beginning.... begs the question why we jumped into marriage.

when i left him, and he brought me back, even with all the water under the bridge, he wouldnt let me leave him again.

borderline possessive, but that made me realize that this person didnt want the easy way out like i had tried to do.  he really wanted this, and me, with all our problems when we both could have easily walked away.....

i know he loves me because he would rather take the tougher times with me than have it easy without me.

i thank my lucky stars he didnt let me leave.  i was selfish back then, and i didnt look at marriage the way i do now.  

we both needed growing up...and im glad we did it the hard way together.