When did you realize your marriage couldn't be fixed?

Question

When did you realize your marriage couldn't be fixed?

Answer 1

the first time I cried after s*x....

Answer 2

When he cheated and thought I would accept it and keep his *** around. That was half of his problem right there...he just thought too d**n munch.  

Answer 3

when she was fine with her family moving in and taking over our home all the time then it was her wanting them to move in so they could watch the kids while she went out with another man i knew it couldn't be fixed when she said she was to young to get married and that i would leave before they would leave after 8 years of marriage i knew she didn't when i found out their was infidelity on her part and that is why she wanted them to move in but i knew that they were there for that and the didn't want to hear that i knew it was going on i had to find out on my own

Answer 4

After his first affair....

we just got through dealing w/his fifth. Still didnt help me leave him tho. Weak huh....

Answer 5

When my wife declared she did not love me anymore and that she had felt so empty, no more desire to give me any affection and attraction - sexually and physically (after 10+ yrs of marriage).... and that her affection, etc is now veered towards someone else.

Answer 6

When he started raping me to get s*x, after all, there are other ways of getting it, such as love and affection.  It took another 6 months before I had the guts to boot him out.

Answer 7

I realized my marriage could not be fixed when the benefits where a lot less than the negatives of getting a divorce. In other words, I would be better off by myself. After I had made the decision that I would like to be by myself, that I would not miss my wife as much as I would miss my freedom, my independence, and most of all I would not miss putting up with her sad face, moodiness, and her controlling issues.

Answer 8

When she had all the reasons for my unhappiness with our marriage spelled out for her and she would not put any effort into working on those problems. I always felt like I was only around to contribute financially to her ideal lifestyle and help with the kids and housework. She hasn't done anything to prove that wrong. So we are divorcing.

Answer 9

When it became obvious that my then partner was not ever going to change her relationship methods and learn some of the new/better relationship methods I was learning in therapy.  I could no longer live with the horribly dysfunctional system my partner prefered after learning of a healthier and more functional relationship system so I left her!

Now I am in a heathy relationship which embraces better relationship methods.

try it!