When do I pop the question ?

Question

My ex of 5 months has decided to come back into my life, and frankly I have been in a lot of pain when she decided to end our relationship. We have been on 2 dates so far and they have gone very well. She has never really open up to me like this before and I get the sense that her life is in a bit of turmoil at this point and she needs someone to lean on. Last night we went to the movies which she paid for both tickets than we ate dinner at the beaches which was very nice. Oddly to say I walked her back to her car and she shoke my hand, which I thought was odd. At the movie and dinner she flirted with me back in forth asking everything about my personal life: who I have been dating, where I hang out and so forth. I get the impression that she's interested, but I also get the impression that there could be someone else even though she says otherwise. Later that night I sent her text asking if she made it home ok, and she said, "yes... and it was soooo refreshing hanging out with you". To be honest I never seen her so happy as she cried herself laughing through out" Tropic Thunder". My thing is when do I pop the question to her on what her intentions are. C'mon who becomes friends with their ex's and why would she hang out with me on her day off, on Labor day if she wasn't in a committed relationship. I can't be friends with her but in reality it's been 5 months since we last spoke and now we have hung out twice two weekends back-to-back. I need help on how I should approach this issue because I am way to much in love with this woman to be friends with her. It took me almost 5 months to forget about her. How should I phrase the question? Should I call her, or wait for her to call me ?

Answer 1

Call her and tell her you don't like her. Simple as that.

Answer 2

look you said it yourself that it seems that her life is admist turmoil right now obviously she is turning to you because you are the one that she feels most comfortable with to be the way that she needs to be.  As for popping the question there is nothing in your question that would give me the impression that this is what she wants nor needs at this point.  Now if you love her as much as you say you do,  what is wrong with being friends?  Is this a hangup for you?  Sometimes in life the things that we love the most are the things we have to put before ourselves our emotions and let them be themselves and do what they need to do such as love.  Remember in this life woman come and go but friends stay forever is this so bad?

Answer 3

Wow, she's got you wrapped around her finger! Good luck with that one Buddy!